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15 Best Male Masturbators and Strokers for a Solo Sex Upgrade

Ditch the lotion.

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Has your alone time lost its je ne sais quoi? Goon sesh just doesn't hit the same these days? It's time to look beyond your hand and a bottle of lotion. Level up your arsenal. One such option? Prostate massagers. A more introductory option? A trusted partner you can have fun and experiment with... Oh, a low-stakes option to get you through a dry spell? Male masturbators, commonly called strokers or sleeves these days.

Sorry to make the joke that male sex toys, like male masturbators, are only for dweebs who can't get laid. Truthfully, that's lazy coming from us, a sex-positive men's magazine. That kind of thinking is just as lame as the "I'm allergic to latex" condoms excuse. Better sex doesn't require a partner full-time. Masturbators and strokes will never replace human touch, but working solo can actually make you a better partner once other people get involved.

Here we have a rundown of the 15 best male masturbators, from traditionally ugly options like Fleshlights to new good-looking sleeves like Maude's Dome. It's worth noting, each will pair well with a bottle of good lube, some nice visuals, or, like we said, a partner. These are the best male masturbators out there. Let's get into it.

  • Dome

    Best Overall Male Masturbator

    Maude Dome

    $35 at maude
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  • F1S V2 Pleasure Console

    Best Techy Masturbator

    Lelo F1S V2 Pleasure Console

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  • Head Master Double Texture

    Best First Stroker

    Lovehoney Head Master Double Texture

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  • Flex

    A Male Masturbator That's Not Ugly

    Tenga Flex

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  • Pulse Solo Interactive

    Best Hands-Free Masturbator

    Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Interactive

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Best Overall Male Masturbator

Maude Dome

Dome
Best Overall Male Masturbator

Maude Dome

$35 at maude
Pros
  • Looks good, with an amazing interior texture
  • Stretchable to accommodate a range of sizes
  • Affordable
Cons
  • Not battery-powered, if that's what you want

Maude is our preferred brand for any sex toy, because it actually makes beautiful objects. The male sex toy industry (especially the stroker world) trends heterosexual and ugly as hell. Maude was founded by Éva Goicochea—and now co-creative directed by Dakota Johnson—on the principles of good design and inclusivity.

The Dome is a simple and incredibly effective sleeve. See, even the term sleeve makes it feel more upscale than stroker or masturbator. The textured interior is one of the best we've used, and the whole thing is easy to clean. And to top it all off, it's double sided, so it's useful or solo or partner play.

Best Techy Masturbator

Lelo F1S V2 Pleasure Console

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F1S V2 Pleasure Console
Best Techy Masturbator

Lelo F1S V2 Pleasure Console

Now 24% Off
Pros
  • A bunch of tech and data
  • Insanely customizable
Cons
  • A bit more than some want or need

Lelo's Pleasure Console has ten sensitive sensors inside the sleeve to provide feedback on speed, stamina, and skill straight to the Lelo app for a completely customizable experience. That'll either sound terrifying or thrilling. Act accordingly.

Best First Stroker

Lovehoney Head Master Double Texture

Head Master Double Texture
Best First Stroker

Lovehoney Head Master Double Texture

Pros
  • Works solo or with a partner
  • Easy to clean
  • Dual textured
Cons
  • A bit simple, if you need anything more

The issue with a lot of strokers is that they encourage solo sex too much. Yes, sometimes you need to get it in alone, but your Blowjob Simulator 4000 shouldn't be so techy that it replaces real human touch.

Lovehoney's Head Master is our answer, because it's perfect as a blowjob enhancer or a solo-time stroker. It's cheap, reversible, and easy to clean. With some lube, it makes for a great first stroker or a nice couples toy.

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A Male Masturbator That's Not Ugly

Tenga Flex

Flex
A Male Masturbator That's Not Ugly

Tenga Flex

Pros
  • Looks better than a classic Fleshlight
  • Can flex and suction better than other strokers
Cons
  • Not open ended, so only for solo play

The Tenga Flex is like a classic Fleshlight, except it's made to look a tad more discreet. Plus, the Flex is, well, flexible. If the internal ribbing isn't doing it for you in a regular up-and-down motion, you can flex it into more of a spiral or block the air hole for more intense suction.

Best Hands-Free Masturbator

Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Interactive

Pulse Solo Interactive
Best Hands-Free Masturbator

Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Interactive

Pros
  • App control makes it good for couples, especially long distance
  • Really can bring you to a hands free orgasm
Cons
  • Expensive

The Pulse can, we're not lying, make you orgasm without you having to touch your own penis. We love a prostate massager, but if that's too exploratory for you, this is the guybrator for your dick.

There are other models, but we especially like this interactive one because it can be controlled with an app. You can give those controls away to a partner, and they can give you a good time from across the room or across the world.

Best Remote Stroker for Couples

Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo

Pulse Duo
Best Remote Stroker for Couples

Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo

Pros
  • Made for couples use, not solo gooning
Cons
  • Not the most exciting for some couples

For in-person couples play, this version of the Pulse has a local remote control.

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Best Cheap Male Masturbator

TENGA Egg

Egg
Best Cheap Male Masturbator

TENGA Egg

Pros
  • Just some ribbing for your head, nothing outrageous
  • A great way to see if you'd want to use a stroker more often
  • Pretty discreet
Cons
  • One-time use feels wasteful

Not sure you want to shell out for a proper stroker? Try out the Tenga Egg. It's stretchable, but it's really meant for hitting the most sensitive parts of your head. So, it's not a majorly different experience to good old hand and lotion.

The only downside is that it's a one-use stroker. There's no cleaning and reusing. Fine if you're a clean freak, but ultimately it's a bit wasteful.

Best Targeted Masturbator

Fun Factory Cobra Libre II

Cobra Libre II
Best Targeted Masturbator

Fun Factory Cobra Libre II

Pros
  • Whisper-quiet vibration
  • Nice ergonomic holding position
Cons
  • Pricey

It's got targeted stimulation and is quiet enough not to intrude on your imagination. Plus, looks-wise, you can just tell any unsolicited houseguest that it's a high-tech smart mouse.

The OG of Male Masturbators

Fleshlight Turbo Thrust

Turbo Thrust
The OG of Male Masturbators

Fleshlight Turbo Thrust

Pros
  • Affordable
  • Classic, easy-to-use design
  • Some serious grip upgrades
Cons
  • That blue-ice color is ugly

The devil is in the details with this oral-sex simulator. It tries to be extremely life-like in its re-creation with the exception of one detail: You can manually adjust the suction level.

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Best Masturbator for Couples

Fun Factory Manta Vibrating Stroker

Manta Vibrating Stroker
Best Masturbator for Couples

Fun Factory Manta Vibrating Stroker

Pros
  • Open design and ergonomic handle
  • Great for couples
Cons
  • High price tag

Manta will hit the spot—wherever that is for you. (It's "ergonomic," shall we say.) Even better, it's designed for couples play, to turn moments with Your Someone up a notch.

Best Male Masturbator for Edging

Lovehoney Blowmotion Warming Male Masturbator

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Blowmotion Warming Male Masturbator
Best Male Masturbator for Edging

Lovehoney Blowmotion Warming Male Masturbator

Now 28% Off
Pros
  • A ton of settings to keep things interesting
  • Good price
  • Great size for edging
Cons
  • Head-only stimulation

When you're edging, the focus is always on the head of your penis. You want something that is quick-on, quick-off so you (or, ideally, a partner) can take yourself all the way to the edge, quickly cut the fun, and take you back a bit. For that, this little warming masturbator has six vibration modes, the ability to be squeezed, and a short 3.5-inch chamber. It's the perfect tool.

Best Male Masturbator for Travel

Arcwave Voy Compact

Voy Compact
Best Male Masturbator for Travel

Arcwave Voy Compact

Pros
  • Lightweight and easy to pack
  • Plenty of different pressure settings
Cons
  • Not as all-encompassing as larger masturbators

On the go? Or just low on space and looking for something that stores easy? Arcwave's Voy Compact is a great low-key option with an easily storable shape. It's only about 3.5 inches tall, but since it's open-ended, the Voy Compact can accompany any length. As for girth, Arcwave uses an ingenious Tightness Adjustment System with eight different pressure settings, which will accommodate just about anyone.

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Best Textured Masturbator

TENGA Flip Hole Masturbator

Flip Hole Masturbator
Best Textured Masturbator

TENGA Flip Hole Masturbator

Pros
  • Quite discreet
  • The full vibration is really incredible
  • Easy to open up and clean
Cons
  • There's a lot going on in there, almost too much

On the outside, this device looks sleek and very high-tech. But when you flip it open, it looks like, Holy shit I'm supposed to put that where?! Every centimeter inside is tightly packed with just about every stimulant you can think of—ribs, nubs, gates, flaps, pumps—to blow your mind.

Not Quite a Male Masturbator

Maude Band

Band
Not Quite a Male Masturbator

Maude Band

Pros
  • Great for solo or partner sex
  • Easy to use
  • 5 different vibration speeds
Cons
  • Not a stroker, sorry about that

I've said this a few times here, but let me do it one final time: Don't let a stroker or masturbator replace a real-world sex life. If you think a full-entry masturbator is too goon-pilled for you, consider a vibrating cock ring.

This one from Maude looks good and is easy to use, and it's got life-changing vibration levels. It'll give you the best solo sex of your life, but it's equally useful in bed with a partner.

Best Traditional Masturbator

Adam & Eve Satisfyer Men Classic

Satisfyer Men Classic
Best Traditional Masturbator

Adam & Eve Satisfyer Men Classic

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Pros
  • Adjustable pressure on the inside
  • Great price
Cons
  • As with any of the fleshlight-styles ... it's a bit much

I mean, you see it. Simple as that. But upon experimentation, more nuance is revealed. Of the adjustable inner pressure regulator. Of the grooved texture. And more, plus it's cost-effective.

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How We Picked the Best Male Masturbators

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Well, uh, our penis-owning sex-experts played the field. Our non-penis-owning but penis-enjoying sex experts weighed in from their point of view. Generally, though, these are the criteria we looked for.

Good for solo play - Ultimately, this is what these are for. Sometimes you're alone, and the hand plus lotion routine doesn't cut it.

Good for couples play - But the best male masturbators encourage couples play. Open-ended models or ones that have remote control were consistently our favorites to use.

Easy to clean - Self explanatory. Props to models like the Tenga Flex that can be fully turned inside out.

Design - We're tired of sex toys looking like torture devices. We're not going to have these displayed on our coffee table, but we appreciate when they are designed to look good.

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