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    People Are Sharing Red Flags That Should Immediately Negate Green Flags In A Relationship

    Sometimes, all it takes is one red flag for a relationship to go kaput immediately.

    Last year, I wrote a post about red flags that should immediately cancel green flags in a relationship. There were so many comments that I decided to do a second post. Here are 17 more red flags that people shared.

    Note: Responses have been edited for length and clarity.

    1. "Deliberate ignorance."

    Two people having a heated conversation on a couch
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    —claudettevanm

    2. "Racism/sexism/homophobia/transphobia. It will automatically alter my view of a person for the worse."

    —Serena Fischer

    3. "Extreme outbursts of anger. I wish I would've taken them more seriously in my last relationship."

    —justchillman

    4. "Being rude to servers/store clerks/service folks."

    Woman gesturing no to food on table, looking away with thoughtful expression
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    —squirreltooth

    5. "Misogynist jokes. Like I'm done. It's not funny, never really was, and it's too real these days. If someone seems otherwise cool but makes casual jokes about sexism (or racism or homophobia or transphobia), nope 🙅‍♀️ we're done here. I'm out. 💃"

    —catsarefriendshaped❤️

    6. "Allowing their friends to disrespect you or your home."

    —AvalonAngel