The Best Luxury Sex Toys To Get You Off With Grandeur

When you're looking for the best luxury sex toys, the common adage, “you get what you pay for” certainly applies That’s not to say you can’t get a great toy for under $50 if you know what to look for, but generally speaking, if you want next-level sensations, you’re gonna have to pay a next-level price.

I’ve been a professional sex toy reviewer for over a decade, and in that time, I’ve tried many “luxury” sex toys. Some were sent to me, and some, I was excited enough about to buy with my own money. Not all of them live up to their steep price tags, certainly, but a great many do. It’s all about knowing how to sleuth out the sex toys worth splurging on. In our reviewing of sex toys for men, women, couples, and basically everyone under the sun, we've come across some high-end sex toys that are truly worth the money.

The Best Luxury Sex Toys, at a Glance

Your bougie body wants some high-end toys right the hell now. No worries, we got you covered right here.

What to look for in luxury sex toys

Check the Materials: A surprising number of sex toys are made of materials that are known to be unsafe, such as those containing phthalates, a toxic type of plasticizer, or those that are porous, meaning they can never be fully cleaned after their first use and could give you recurring infections.

Porous and/or phthalate-ridden materials like jelly, rubber, and thermoplastic elastomers, are not usually found in expensive toys, but they do show up occasionally. Instead, you’ll want to look for non-porous, phthalate-free materials, such as silicone, ABS plastic, metal, glass, acrylic, glazed ceramic, and sealed wood.

Consider the “Cost Per Use”: Take your preferences and patterns under advisement when deciding on a big sex toy purchase. If you’re only in the mood for anal stimulation once in a blue moon, for example, then you’d probably get more mileage out of an external toy like a stroker or wand vibrator than you would out of a butt plug or prostate massager. That doesn’t mean you should only spend big bucks on toys you’d use frequently (especially since, for instance, owning a fancy vibrating butt plug might make anal play something you want all the time) but your current sex life (solo, partnered, or otherwise) can give you some helpful hints about which toys would be the smartest investments for you.

Read Reviews: If a toy has a fatal flaw, like an uncomfortable shape or unreliable wiring, that will often become evident in reviews. Prioritize reading reviews from laypeople, like those you’ll see in the user review sections of sites that sell a wide array of sex toys, as well as those written by independent sex toy reviewers, who are demonstrably more committed to honesty than to making a quick buck.

Check the Warranty: Many high-end sex toy companies offer a warranty on their toys, which could mean that they’ll repair it, replace it, or offer you a discount on another toy purchase if yours breaks or malfunctions within a certain amount of time after buying it. Naturally, this can offer you a bit more peace of mind if you’re nervous about splashing out on a pricey toy. Do some research to find out whether the toy you’re considering comes with a warranty, what the terms of that warranty are, and what you need to do to register your new toy so it’ll be eligible if it stops working.

Take a Look IRL: If the toy you’ve got your eye on is carried at any local sex shops, seeing it in-person could give you a better sense of whether you actually want it or not. After all, reviews and product descriptions can only go so far in conveying what a particular toy’s vibrations feel like, or how soft versus firm its material is. “Our brains have trouble assessing weight, size, and volume when just looking at numbers, and often, those numbers are not even listed online,” explains Brian Oestmann, a sexuality educator and professional dominant. 

Along similar lines, it’s worth considering the specific hole in your sex life that you’re looking to fill (pun intended, sorry) and whether you really need the priciest option for that purpose. Hell, some toys don’t do much that a couple fingers can’t accomplish. What makes a pricey toy worth the expense is “really how much I value the specific sensation/action the toy provides, versus, can I make do without it?” Oestmann says. “In terms of something like a [sex] machine, it's practically impossible to execute some [types of play] without it. So I went for it.”

For the purposes of this piece, we'll be defining a “luxury” or “high-end” sex toy as one that costs $150 or more. Here are some of the best luxury sex toys that money can buy.

The Best High-End Wand Vibrator: Doxy Die Cast

Material: Silicone (head), casted aluminum and titanium (body)
Battery life: Electric
How to Use: Use the power button to turn the toy on or off, and the “+” and “–” buttons to adjust its intensity. If desired, apply water-based lube to the head of the wand before using.

If you want truly excellent vibrations, sometimes you have to pay a truly exorbitant price. But for those of us who like a lot of power, it's worth the cash. This gorgeous wand has a body made of aluminum and titanium for a shine and heft that just screams "luxury." Sure, it's pretty heavy and needs to be plugged in, but it's one of my favorite high-end vibes because its power and beauty are practically unparalleled.

Pros: Very powerful vibrations; eight vibration speeds; double-weighted head for extra rumbliness; luxurious metal construction; LED-lighted buttons for easier use in the dark
Cons: Heavy; initially cold to the touch; requires an electrical outlet; some users report mechanical issues

The Best High-End G-Spot Vibrator: BMS Factory Swan Wand

Materials: Silicone
Battery Life: 8 hours
How to Use: Each of the toy’s two ends has its own motor. Press the button closest to the end you want to use to turn on its motor. When you want to turn the speed up, press and hold that same button until it reaches the intensity you’re looking for, and then release the button. To turn the toy off, press and hold both buttons at once.

This is the strongest G-spot vibrator I've ever tried. So if you know you like a lot of G-spot stimulation, whether on its own or paired with other kinds of pleasure, it's hard to go past this one. It starts at a low rumble and works its way up to an impressive jackhammer intensity. It's also a surprisingly travel-friendly toy, what with its travel lock function and wildly long battery life.

Pros: Very powerful, rumbly vibrations; double-ended design gives you two size options; one motor in each end for extra power; curved shape to hit the G-spot; waterproof; travel lock function; very long battery life
Cons: May be too large for some people to use comfortably; can’t be used with silicone-based lube; one-button speed adjustment can be tricky to get used to; not anal-safe

The Best High-End Couples' Vibrator: We-Vibe Chorus

Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
Battery Life: 2 hours
How to Use: Press the button on the toy to turn it on, and use the same button to cycle through its vibration modes. You can also control it using the included remote or the We-Connect app. Apply water-based lubricant before slipping the G-spot arm of the toy inside.

We-Vibe has created many iterations of their signature C-shaped couples' vibe over the years, and this one is about as close to perfect as they've gotten yet. Like its predecessors, this one has two "arms": one goes inside the vagina to hit the G-spot, while the other sits outside on the clit. It's meant to be worn during penetrative sex, stimulating both partners at once, but I've also found that it works well solo. The Chorus's most unique feature, though, is its squeeze-control remote: the tighter you squeeze the remote, the stronger the vibration gets, which is much more intuitive in the heat of the moment than struggling to press buttons in the dark.

Pros: Strong, rumbly vibrations; three vibration speeds and seven patterns; intuitive squeeze-control remote; Bluetooth-controllable; can be used long-distance; waterproof
Cons: Can’t be used with silicone-based lubes; ridged surface can be hard to clean

The Best High-End Dual-Stimulation Vibrator: Womanizer Duo 2

Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
Battery Life: 2 hours
How to Use: Apply water-based lubricant to the G-spot arm and clitoral nozzle of the toy. Slip the G-spot arm inside your vagina and place the nozzle over your clitoris. Press and hold the power button to turn the toy on or off. Each of the toy’s functions has two buttons which control it; use these to increase or decrease their intensity. Press the patterns button to cycle through vibration patterns.

This luxe toy comes highly recommended by Dr. Jessica O'Reilly, a sexologist and sex & relationships expert for Lovehoney. "The Womanizer Duo offers an alternative to simple vibrations, as the outer arm stimulates the head of the clitoris with pleasure-air technology that uses tiny bursts of air to create a suction-like sensation over the clitoral head," she explains. "The inner arm curves upward against the G-spot to provide vibrations, and each function can be controlled individually." Basically, if you want to overload your clit and G-spot with pleasure, this toy is one of the best and fanciest ways to do it!

Pros: Offers both clitoral stimulation and G-spot vibration at once; each function can be controlled separately; strong, rumbly vibrations; 14 intensity levels and 10 vibration patterns; comes with two differently-sized stimulator heads to fit a range of clitoris sizes; waterproof
Cons: Can be inconveniently large/bulky; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes

The Best High-End Penis Vibe: Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Lux

Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
Battery Life: 1 hour
How to Use: Press and hold the power button to turn the toy on or off. Apply water-based lube to the inside of the toy before slipping your penis into it. Control its vibration intensity with the buttons on the toy or on the included watch remote. You can stroke the toy up and down or just leave it in one place.

Vibration is a highly underrated way of stimulating penises; after all, all genital tissue is essentially very similar, so what feels good on a clit will often feel good on a dick too, if you can find a toy that's the right shape for the job. This one fits the bill: It's made to curve around the penis, sending rumbly vibrations all throughout your shaft and especially focusing on the super-sensitive frenulum. My partner likes this one and especially likes that it can be used at all stages of the arousal cycle, from flaccid to fully erect.

Pros: Powerful, rumbly vibrations; six vibration settings; can be used with or without an erection; includes a remote with a watch strap for added convenience; waterproof
Cons: Can’t be used with silicone-based lubes; short battery life; may not work for very short or very thick penises; not as easily incorporated into partnered sex as some other penis vibes

The Best High-End Prostate Massager: Lelo Hugo

Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
Battery Life: 2 hours
How to Use: Press the “+” button on the toy to turn it on or to increase vibration intensity. Press the center button to cycle through the toy’s vibration modes. Use the “–” button to decrease vibration intensity, or hold it down to turn the toy off. You can also control the toy via its included remote. Apply water-based lubricant before inserting the toy anally.

This elegant vibrator has two rumbly motors to stimulate your prostate and perineum at the same time, potentially amping up your orgasm a great deal. You can control it using the included remote or hand the remote to your partner so they can take over. "This thing was amazing once I found a good position," one Amazon reviewer wrote. "I can honestly say this is the only toy that has actually made me scream when I finished as it was so intense." Sounds like it's worth its high price tag!

Pros: Powerful, rumbly vibrations; six vibration settings; two motors for stimulating the prostate and perineum; good curve for hitting the prostate; can be controlled via remote or via the buttons on the toy; waterproof
Cons: May be too large for some users; remote uses disposable batteries; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes

The Best High-End Pressure-Wave Stimulator: Lelo Sila

Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
Battery Life: 2 hours
How to Use: Hold down the middle button to turn the toy on or off. Use the other two buttons to control the toy’s intensity level. Apply water-based lube to the nozzle of the toy before putting it on your clitoris.

This is my personal favorite pressure-wave toy; it consistently gives me intense clitoral orgasms, whether I'm pairing it with a dildo or butt plug or just using it on its own. Its secret to success, beyond its fabulously thuddy motor, is the wide, flat "lips" around its nozzle, which help it create a better seal around your clit. This means that each of its rhythmic waves of air can be felt more strongly through your entire clitoris and not just the part that's visible on the outside, but the parts that extend deeper into the body as well. Although it looks a bit like a sea creature or Birdo from the Mario franchise, it more than makes up for its odd shape and appearance with the toe-curling sensations it provides.

Pros: Eight pressure-wave settings; large mouth accommodates more clit sizes; flat “lips” create a better seal for more intense sensations; quiet; waterproof
Cons: May not work as well for smaller clits; too large to be used comfortably in some sex positions

The Best High-End Realistic Dildo: New York Toy Collective Carter

Materials: Silicone
How to Use: Apply water-based lube to the toy before inserting it vaginally or anally.

Crafted by hand, this dildo is one of the highest-quality and prettiest realistic options on the market. It's a favorite of mine for profoundly fulfilling G-spot stimulation, because its girth and substantial coronal ridge allow it to hit my G-spot almost effortlessly. On top of that, it has a posable core, so you can bend it into whatever shape feels best for your body before using it. Assuming you dig its dimensions, this truly is a dream dildo!

Pros: Dual-density silicone for a realistic and comfortable feel; posable core for a customizable angle; pronounced coronal ridge for G-spot/P-spot stimulation; harness-compatible; anal-safe; comes in multiple skin tones and fun colors
Cons: May be too large for some users (in which case the smaller “Shilo” model by the same brand may be preferred); can’t be used with silicone-based lubes; doesn’t always hold its shape well during use if bent into an angle

The Best High-End Non-Realistic Dildo: Njoy Eleven

Materials: Stainless steel
How to Use: Apply a lube of your choice to the toy before inserting it.

One of the most exciting days in my entire career as a sex toy reviewer was the day I received this formidable dildo in the mail. It's eleven inches of stainless steel from tip to tail, and offers you two different sizes to choose from with its double-ended design. While I'm not always in the mood for its beefy girth, it's one of the only dildos that can consistently make me cry from how intense it feels. Not to mention, it's so beautiful that you could display it on your nightstand like an objet d'art. 

Pros: Double-ended design offers a variety of sensations; textured side is stimulating and also functions well as a grippable handle; gentle curve for G-spot stimulation; durable and long-lasting; comes with a nice leather bag for storage/travel
Cons: Heavy; may be too large for some people to use comfortably; technically not anal-safe because it lacks a flared base

The Best High-End Thruster: Fun Factory Stronic G

Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
Battery Life: 2 hours
How to Use: Apply some water-based lube to the toy and slip it inside your vagina, with the head facing up toward your G-spot. Turn it on with the “Fun” button and control the thrusting speed with the other two buttons.

When you're paying a premium price for a sex toy, it's reasonable to expect premium functions. And Fun Factory's Stronic line of toys delivers, by using "pulsation" technology to thrust back and forth over your sensitive internal spots. This one is shaped to target the G-spot, and it does a wonderful job of that; it can consistently make me squirt hands-free, which is pretty damn impressive. Pair it with a clitoral vibrator and it's basically heaven.

Pros: Intense G-spot stimulation; automatic, hands-free thrusting; seven speeds and three patterns; can be used in combination with oral sex and other activities; waterproof; travel lock function
Cons: May be too girthy for some users; may wiggle out of you if not anchored in place by a pillow (or similar) between your legs; thrusting is not as powerful as that of a full-size fucking machine (see the Hismith below); can’t be used with silicone-based lubes

The Best High-End Stroker: Lelo F1S V2

Materials: Silicone, ABS plastic, and aluminum alloy
Battery Life: 2 hours
How to Use: Apply water-based lubricant to the inside and entrance of the stroker, and slide it onto your penis. Control the vibrations with the buttons on the toy, or pair it with Lelo’s F1S app on your phone via Bluetooth and control it that way. The app is also where you can see data from the toy’s 10 sensors.

Not all sex toys have to be high-tech gadgets with state-of-the-art features, but that's exactly what this vibrating stroker aims to be. Its soft, pliable sleeve feels good whether you're stroking it up and down or just leaving it still, and its two motors stimulate your entire shaft with powerfully rumbly vibrations. Most interestingly, it contains 10 sensors which can track stats like your thrusting speed and stamina, so it's a must-have for anyone who's nerdy about that kind of thing. My partner loves how good this toy feels, but only wishes the app were better-designed so it was easier to take advantage of the toy's stat-tracking capabilities.

Pros: Two powerful motors for satisfying vibrations; stimulates the frenulum well; comfortably flexible internal sleeve; sensors to track your speed and stamina via Lelo’s app; quiet; waterproof
Cons: Can’t be used with silicone-based lubes; app is poorly designed/hard to use; may not fit all penis sizes

The Best High-End Strap-On Harness: Aslan Leather Cherry Minx

Materials: Leather and nickel-plated steel
How to Use: Step into the harness and adjust the straps to fit. Slip a dildo of your choice through the O-ring from the back, so it pokes out the front (dildo must be harness-compatible, i.e. must have a flared base that can be held in place by the harness).

Aslan Leather's handmade items are stunning, supple, and sexy as hell. This harness will last you a long time and will look good doing it, so it's a good pick for strap-on sex connoisseurs, as well as newbies who want the best of the best from the jump. I've had mine for several years and it still makes me feel hot and powerful every time I step into it. This particular design has a corset-style back for extra sex appeal.

Pros: Two size options to fit hips ranging from 28 to 56 inches around; gorgeous corset-back design; gives more control and precision than most fabric harnesses; multiple adjustable straps; can accommodate various different dildo sizes via its swappable O-ring
Cons: Not vegan (though the company does also make vegan-friendly faux-leather harnesses); leather is porous and hard to fully clean; nickel-plated hardware could cause issues for users with a nickel allergy

The Best Rideable Vibrator: Cowgirl

Material: Steel, aluminum, plastic, polyurethane, and silicone
Battery Life: Electric
How to Use: Follow the included instructions to set up the toy (they’re too complex to summarize here!). Control the toy with its corded remote control or by connecting it to the Cowgirl app.

Rideable vibrators like the Cowgirl and Sybian are beloved by fans of ultra-powered vibration; they are truly some of the strongest vibrators available. This one is covered in black faux leather, giving it a surprisingly elegant aesthetic. I had an opportunity to test this toy and it wasn't for me—my hips and knees just aren't built for the cowgirl position, whether I'm riding a vibrator or a person!—but if you love wildly strong sensations and don't mind the position this toy necessitates, it might be worth the splurge.

Pros: Very powerful vibrations; vibrates and rotates; both functions can be controlled independently; comfortably padded saddle seat; comes with two silicone attachments (and more are available to purchase) which are easy to remove and clean between uses; can be controlled via the Cowgirl app; slip-resistant silicone base
Cons: Loud; heavy and hard to move around; requires a nearby electrical outlet; app connectivity is complicated to set up; may not be comfortable for users with hip/knee issues; has to be used on a stable, flat surface; requires some setup; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes

The Best Sex Machine: Hismith Premium

Materials: Metal, with silicone dildo
Battery Life: Electric
How to Use: Adjust the machine to your preferred angle and position, attach the included dildo (or another favorite dildo), and control the machine’s settings via its wired remote.

Oestmann already owns some sex machines but this is the one he wants next, and it's easy to see why—it has nearly a thousand 5-star reviews on Amazon, far more than comparable machines. "The Hismith is more posable, sturdy, and has a strong enough motor to enable penetration of all orifices," Oestmann explains. "In the case of machines like this, unfortunately, one often has to pay more to get the better equipment." The Hismith uses a dildo attachment system called KlicLok which can accommodate many different types of dildos (sometimes with the help of extra attachments/adaptors), and its angle and speed are completely adjustable, so you can get railed exactly the way you want to.

Pros: Adjustable; hands-free (once it’s positioned and inserted); comes with a silicone dildo; strong, relatively quiet motor; long-distance controllable; twist-dial makes it easier to find your preferred speed; can be used with many different dildos (sold separately)
Cons: Heavy; requires assembly; requires a nearby power outlet; can get loud on higher speeds; extra adaptors/connectors may need to be purchased in order to use certain dildos; hard to store

The Best High-End Sex Blanket: Liberator Throw

Materials: Polyester
How to Use: Lay down the Throw on your bed (or wherever else) before masturbating or having sex. When you’re done, you can machine-wash it.

Sex can get messy, and sometimes you'd rather not have to launder all your bedding because of one particularly wet sex session. For squirters, people who like to use a lot of lube, or anyone else who has messy sex, the Liberator Throw is a life-saver. It's velvety-soft on the outside, for comfort, but has a moisture-resistant barrier on the inside that prevents moisture from seeping through to your bed/floor/etc. As a squirter myself, I certainly appreciate mine. One thing to note is that the Throw doesn't really absorb moisture, it just catches it and keeps it from soaking into whatever's under it, so be careful not to, say, spill a puddle of squirt on the floor when you're removing the Throw from your bed after sex. Not that I speak from experience or anything.

Pros: Soft “micro-velvet” fabric; inner moisture barrier to prevent soaking your bed; machine-washable; available in multiple sizes; discreet appearance
Cons: Moisture can pool and move around because the Throw doesn’t absorb it