What is Marital Hatred? Do you and your partner have it?

In a marriage, after some time, a couple starts taking each other’s flaws a little too seriously, making it difficult for them to communicate or cope with rising problems in their marriage. Marital hatred is that time period in a marriage where the partners see each other in a negative light too often. Marriage counsellors treat marital hatred as a phase in a married couple’s life where differences seem irreconcilable for some time. Let’s understand more intricately what it’s all about and also identify if you and your spouse are experiencing marital hatred or not.

Marital hatred becomes evident in the relationship when the energy between partners becomes strikingly negative. It gets to a point where “we should have never gotten married in the first place. Things will get negative at a point where all you both do is find faults within each other.

When you and your partner harbour marital hatred, you both will become quickly frustrated with each other’s quirky habits. You both may become agitated with each other, and this may go on, unless you both decide to communicate.

Marital hatred can turn extremely negative and threaten your marriage to a huge extent. Unless checked, a couple may face the possibility of getting a divorce. However, when a marriage therapist or a counsellor enters the picture, it can help the couple’s case because a therapist tries to make the couple realise that marital hatred is indeed common, and just for a period of time.

A couple can focus on each other’s qualities that make them special and unique. Try to appreciate the good qualities and understand why you love them. Increase your touches with your partner and kiss them whenever you can. Little acts of intimacy may ignite the spark between you two once more, thus eliminating the marital hatred.

If you are your spouse have faced such a hateful situation, it is quite evident that you both have been experiencing marital hatred for quite some time now.

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