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A woman whose mother deliberately faked serious illnesses for 30 years thought her mum was miraculously 'cured' after she enjoyed an 'amazing holiday' to the US where here conditions seemed to disappear. 

Helen Naylor, 38, from Nottingham, was seven-years-old when her mother Elinor told her she had Myalgic encephalomyelitis (ME), a debilitating condition which causes extreme exhaustion.

Throughout her childhood, Helen was 'expected to care for herself' while life revolved around Elinor's illness - while she was also told that her father had a heart condition that could kill him at any moment.

It wasn't until Elinor died in a nursing home aged 69 in 2016, Helen found 55 years worth of diaries, detailing how she would go on shopping trips and out for lunch while claiming she slept for 18 hours a day. 

Helen, who has opened up about her story in a new memoir, now believes her mother had Munchausen's syndrome, a psychological condition where someone fakes illness or deliberately causes physical symptoms.

She recalled a trip to America at the age of 16 where her mother appeared to be 'completely better', walking for 'blocks and blocks' before pretending to be wheelchair bound the instant she returned to the UK.  

Helen Naylor, 38, from Nottingham, was seven-years-old when her mother Elinor told her she had Myalgic encephalomyelitis (ME), a debilitating condition which causes extreme exhaustion. She later discovered that her mother had been faking serious illnesses for over 30 years 

Appearing on This Morning today, she said: 'There were loads of red flags throughout my years growing up. I think probably this biggest one was when I was 16 and we went to America on this amazing holiday and she was completely better. 

'She wouldn't walk me to the end of the street when we were at home, but she could walk for block after block in America. 

'We had this amazing fortnight of amazing experiences and I really believed that America had cured her. I couldn't understand why we didn't move to America, because I really believed.' 

But Elinor's symptoms returned the moment she got home, with Helen saying her mum used a wheelchair to travel from the plane to the airport on the way back to the country.  

Appearing on This Morning today, she said that she thought her mum was miraculously 'cured' after she enjoyed an 'amazing holiday' to the US where here conditions seemed to disappear

At the age of seven, Helen was told her father Alan was suffering with 'quite serious heart and lung problems'. 

Shortly afterwards her mum claimed to be developing symptoms of ME, and Helen says her life changed instantly, with 'everything revolving around my mum's illness'.  

'Even though I knew that my dad's illness was more serious it was mum's ME that everything revolved around', she said. 'We couldn't go out for day trips anymore, she didn't take me out on weekends. 

'On weekends and holidays I was basically left on my own in the afternoons, my mum was in bed, my dad was at the pub and I was left to entertain and look after myself.'  

As well as faking her illnesses, Helen says her mother had 'abused' her as a child, discovering that her arm was somehow broken at the age of two. 

Helen explained that she has a memory of falling off a chair at the age of four and visiting hospital, where she had been told her arm was not broken, but had been three months earlier. 

Helen, who has opened up about her story in a new memoir, now believes her mother had Munchausen's syndrome, a psychological condition where someone fakes illness or deliberately causes physical symptoms

Her mum claimed that her arm had been injured after she accidentally shut the door on her arm while Helen was reaching back to close the door. 

However upon reading her mother's diaries, she realised that she was only two, not four, at the time of the accident. 

She says it would have been impossible for her arm to become injured in that way because she as too young to reach behind her and close the car door. 

'She broke my arm but I don't know how, said Helen. 'She didn't take me to hospital, it wasn't until I fell off this chair three months later they found out it had been broken in the past.' 

At ten she says her mother left her to deal with a fire in their home alone, telling her to switch off a washing machine which had caught ablaze.

'My friend and I were playing downstairs one day when I was about ten and we heard this noise in the kitchen, she said. 

In her new memoir, Helen reveals how she learnt the truth about her mother's deception by reading her diaries after her death 

'It was full of smoke it was sparking,  I shouted for my mum. She didn't come, I ran upstairs to say "What do I do?" and she told me to go back in the room and switch off the washing machine. You think now with a primary school child, you would never consider that.'    

Helen says her mother was unkind to her as a teenager, revealing that at the age of 13 her self-esteem was so low she started self-harming. 

'She used to tell me I was ugly, stupid, and fat and I just really hated myself', she said. 'Because she's my mum, I totally believed she was telling me the truth.' 

Elinor had been a prolific diary writer for 55 years, and her daughter admitted she was stunned after discovering the journals. 

'It was such a shock', she said. 'I really didn't expect to find any of it. I found out this faking of illnesses had been going on her whole life. 

'She had been going to the doctors for all sorts of things as a healthy 20-year-old woman but the most shocking thing was to find out she had abused me as a small child.' 

Helen thinks her mum's 'downfall' was when she began faking Parkinson's later in her life, revealing she was once confronted by a nurse who suspected she was faking and hesitated to give her medication for the illness. 

'I think that was her real downfall, said Helen. 'I think if she had carried on with the ME nobody would have realised what was going on, because ME is so difficult to diagnose and there is such a range of symptoms. 

'But for Parkinson's there are specific tests and symptoms and you can't really fake it.' 

She added: 'I think I'd like to think I can forgive her I don't really feel anger towards her, it's a really unnatural emotional for me to feel. I'm a Christian and I hope I can, will forgive her but it's an ongoing process.'