Who'll find love on our blind date? This week it's Jane, 56 and Tony, 61, but will romance be on the cards?
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- Jane, 56 and Tony, 61, shared the outcome of their date in the UK
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Jane, 56, (pictured) is divorced and has one daughter
JANE, 56
Relationship History
I was with my daughter’s father for 17 years. We divorced many years ago when we grew apart. I then had an eight-year relationship which ended in 2018. Since then, I haven’t seen anyone new. This was my first date in 11 years.
Pre-Date Nerves?
I’m not a nervous type. I was more anxious about travelling to the date by train. I’m a country bumpkin who drives everywhere, not a London gal. I wore a smart suede skirt, a polo-neck jumper, long black boots and a scarf.
First Impressions?
Tony is a nice man, and was warm and friendly. I didn’t feel an immediate attraction, but we shook hands and started chatting. If you looked at all my ex-partners I don’t seem to have a type, but I knew quickly there wasn’t a spark. You can never explain why. I just know.
Easy To Talk To?
We had a lovely date and kept the conversation light. We didn’t get into past relationships, but talked about our daughters and travels. He is clearly a family man and we chatted about raising girls.
We have both been to Australia, although he made me laugh because he loves cruises and I couldn’t think of anything worse. We also both love to keep active. I’ve lost several stone over the past two years and Tony also likes to run. I walk as much as I can and use an exercise bike.
Embarrassing Moments?
None at all.
Did Sparks Fly?
I didn’t feel there was any chemistry, but Tony was lovely to talk to. Near the end of the meal, Tony asked me if I would like to meet up again, and I told him honestly I didn’t feel there was any chance of romance.
That said, we swapped numbers because I would like to find out if Tony meets someone. I think Tony would make a lovely partner. The date has boosted my confidence.
Would you like to meet again?
No, I think we’d both do better to find someone we can have a relationship with. I wish him well.
What do you think he thought of you?
We had a lovely time and are mature enough to know there is no issue if the spark isn’t there.
Would your family and friends like him?
If I had wanted to be in a romantic relationship with Tony, my family and friends would welcome him.
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Tony, 61, (pictured) is divorced and has two daughters
TONY, 61
Relationship History
I was married for 15 years, but we divorced in 2017. I’ve done some online dating and had the odd date, but there hasn’t been any romance. It would be nice to find someone to spend time with.
Pre-Date Nerves?
I was nervous, but I was more looking forward to it, and quite excited. I wore a pair of grey trousers with a yellow polo shirt and turquoise jumper.
First Impressions?
When I saw Jane, she looked lovely. She seemed friendly, too. I’m a slow burner and like to get to know the person before deciding if there’s a spark. We got on well, and it felt comfortable.
Easy To Talk To?
We chatted about all sorts. We both have girls so bonded over that, and she made me laugh when she said I had a lot in common with her dad, mainly because we both played badminton. We talked about how we’ve been affected by the pandemic — Jane had to cancel seeing her parents last Christmas because of a positive Covid test.
We laughed about getting to the restaurant and how we miss good old-fashioned maps. Jane loves animals, and volunteers to walk dogs, so we spoke about how our children wanted pets, but we were the ones who always ended up cleaning up after them.
Jane is active and has a great sense of zest about her. By the time we walked the two miles to the station, I laughed that I’d got my steps in.
Embarrassing Moments?
None at all.
Did Sparks Fly?
I felt it was more platonic. At the end of the meal, Jane said she didn’t feel there was a spark, even though she had enjoyed herself. I appreciated that honesty, because at our age, you prefer to know things straight.
Would you like to meet again?
I think we might meet again for coffee, but only as friends.
What do you think she thought of you?
She was honest that she liked my company, but as a friend.
Would your family and friends like him?
I think so as Jane is easy to get on with and I certainly felt comfortable with her.
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