
New Delhi: Pakistanis can’t keep calm about 24-year-olds making choices for their own life. But this time the woman in question is no ordinary citizen. It’s Nobel Peace Prize laureate Malala Yousafzai who recently announced her nikkah. Some people, however, felt necessary to dig up an interview she gave to British Vogue this year about her sceptical view on marriage.
Malala surprised everyone with the news of her marriage to Pakistan Cricket Board’s manager Asser Malik on Tuesday. Announcing her wedding to Malik on Twitter, Malala wrote, “Today marks a precious day in my life. Asser and I tied the knot to be partners for life. We celebrated a small nikkah ceremony at home in Birmingham with our families”.
Today marks a precious day in my life.
Asser and I tied the knot to be partners for life. We celebrated a small nikkah ceremony at home in Birmingham with our families. Please send us your prayers. We are excited to walk together for the journey ahead.
📸: @malinfezehai pic.twitter.com/SNRgm3ufWP— Malala (@Malala) November 9, 2021
Wishes poured in for Malala and her partner for their new innings. Prominent names like Canada’s Prime Minister Justin Trudeau, Emirati princess Sheikha Hend bint Faisal, Priyanka Chopra and Apple CEO Tim Cook have congratulated the young couple.
Congratulations, Malala and Asser! Sophie and I hope you enjoyed your special day – we’re wishing you a lifetime of happiness together.
— Justin Trudeau (@JustinTrudeau) November 9, 2021
Congratulations and mashallah x
— Jemima Goldsmith (@Jemima_Khan) November 9, 2021
Bohat Mubarak to you and your entire family. Prayers for all the happiness in life
— Asim Saleem Bajwa (@AsimSBajwa) November 9, 2021
Congratulations to you and Asser! Wishing you all the best as you begin your new life together.
— Tim Cook (@tim_cook) November 10, 2021
Lots of love and blessings to dear @Malala beti and dear Asser from Sumedhaji, me & entire family for a happy married life.
— Kailash Satyarthi (@k_satyarthi) November 10, 2021
The infamous Vogue interview
Some people, however, could not help but drag her old comments in an interview given to British Vogue in June this year regarding partnerships.“I still don’t understand why people have to get married. If you want to have a person in your life, why do you have to sign marriage papers, why can’t it just be a partnership?” She had said.
Twitter users cast a shadow of confusion over her decision. They suggested that Malala was backtracking on her views, as if people aren’t allowed to change their opinions or take actions that might, on the face of it, appear contradictory.
Why she did nikkah?? She was agree on partnership… So??
— Rafi Khan 🇵🇰 (@RafiKha01) November 9, 2021
Didn’t malala say that she doesn’t understand why we have to marry and why can’t we just have a partnership instead back in June and now sis just got married 🤡
— Z 🇵🇰 (@zarnnj) November 9, 2021
Marriage ke papers hai ya partnership ke 🤔🤔🤔 pic.twitter.com/I0vA0i6c83
— Umesh (@Umemesh) November 9, 2021
One Twitter user said it could be the ‘Pakistani mother pressure’ that forced her to make the decision, while others were happy to find a cricket connection, and called her a “cricketing royalty”.
P for Pakistani mother pressure https://t.co/ZQcGCBKmrw
— VdL 🇵🇰 (@_mer119) November 10, 2021
Malala married a cricket-related dude. Wins all around for Pakistan Cricket!! pic.twitter.com/aUEXSQ9KXi
— Jibby (@JibbyD) November 9, 2021
Malala is now cricketing royalty, you love to see it. https://t.co/WR5m6bg7E2
— Isabelle Westbury (@izzywestbury) November 9, 2021
Existential crisis over Malala’s marriage
For some, the news has triggered an existential crisis. From being awarded the prestigious Nobel Prize at the age of 17 to graduating from Oxford to getting married at 24, Malala has ticked all boxes, giving some sections of Gen Z major FoMo.
Malala's gone from being a literal schoolgirl to getting married and I'm still out here in these streets… I need to think.
— Otegha K. Uwagba (@OteghaUwagba) November 9, 2021
Malala Yousafzai is 24, has survived an assassination attempt, won the Nobel Peace Prize, become a global icon for gender equality and education, and just got married.
I am 35, and I'm currently thrilled to be on a weeklong streak of not hitting snooze in the morning.
— Charlotte Clymer 🏳️🌈 (@cmclymer) November 10, 2021
Twitter user Jasir Shahbaz went a step ahead and gave advice to all cousins of Malala to “stay low” in order to not be overshadowed by their sister’s achievements in life.
First Nobel Prize now getting married. My prayers and thoughts for all cousins of Malala. Hoe sakay tu stay low for some weeks or trip per jaanay ka tu naam bhi na laina.
— Jasir Shahbaz (@LahoreMarquez) November 9, 2021
Can we now say marriage is for losers? Twitter users found the answer as one claimed that she must have tied the knot before 90 per cent of those people who criticised her when the British Vogue interview was published.
I still remember when people came for her when she was talking about how she viewed marriage, bet she tied the knot before 90% of those people https://t.co/vt9AedQflh
— Khalil, f.k.a. Z (@socialhijabi) November 9, 2021
How to hide Malala's marriage news from my mother. I kind of made her believe only the lame ones are getting married. 🥺
— Jasir Shahbaz (@LahoreMarquez) November 9, 2021
The couple had caught the eyeballs earlier this year during Malala’s birthday on 12 July, when her now-husband Asser Malik posted their picture on Twitter, albeit with a “necessary cameo”.
Happy Birthday to the most amazing @Malala 🌟 @iamsrk had to make a necessary cameo of course. pic.twitter.com/kSFBgSqzVz
— Asser Malik (@MalikAsser) July 12, 2021
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