The pandemic has once again made things weird this holiday season. Major life changes have propelled many people to settle into new homes, novice cooks face the holidays without family, and now Thanksgiving is coming.
It can be daunting to plan a holiday meal when you have few housewares, or instructions. And mishaps happen to everyone, even seasoned professionals. Let these stories of kitchen disasters from chefs, recipe developers and food writers guide you to some essential tools for a successful, easy-to-prepare holiday dinner. I’ll share one of my personal disasters first...
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Twelve sets of hungry eyes watched me from the makeshift living room-dining room as I slid on my bright orange gloves, opened the door, grabbed the sides of the disposable aluminum pan and pulled. I felt the shift in balance as the pan split in two, and time slowed down. The “Nooooo” left my mouth as the turkey plummeted to the floor.
The 23-pound turkey I obsessively marinated, basted and shoved full of lemon and garlic, shattered on impact. Bits of my first solo Thanksgiving foray clung to my apron and decorated the lower cabinets. Thirty minutes of deep-cleaning and deep belly laughter later, I sat down at the folding table set up for the feast, and dug into my first vegetarian Thanksgiving, and the last meal I tried to cook in a disposable roasting pan.
I never attempted a holiday dinner again without my Cuisinart roasting pan. It is a sturdy, reliable vessel for any holiday feast (or weeknight potluck). The aluminum core delivers even heating, and the fully-clad stainless steel construction offers easy release of bits while whisking gravy. Plus it is a cinch to clean.
Get the Cuisinart MultiClad Pro roasting pan for $74.39.

No matter what protein you are roasting this holiday season, a digital thermometer will take the stress out of trying to guess whether you are overcooking your bird, or relying on those pop-ups in the turkey, which inevitably fail. “I recommend the ThermoPro with replaceable batteries — it’s both affordable and effective," Randhawa shared.
Get the ThermoPro digital instant read thermometer for $14.99.

“It was a disaster. It wouldn’t hold together. It was a watery mess and impossible to eat. ... It turns out I used the wrong kind of cranberry sauce and baking dish. I learned my lesson: If Grandma has a tried-and-true recipe, you'd better let her show you how it’s done. And always have a good selection of glass baking dishes to see you through your Thanksgiving dinner.”
Not all baking dishes are created equal. This set is made of virtually shatterproof borosilicate glass, can be taken from freezer to oven to table with no worry over thermal shock, and has tight-fitting lids for easy pre-dinner prep and leftover storage.
Get the eight-piece deep glass baking set for $39.99.

“Now, I always locate my trusty marble rolling pin BEFORE beginning to make our family’s signature lemon meringue pie. I love the Fox Run polished marble rolling pin with wooden cradle. Marble rolling pins are beautiful, and they help keep the dough chilled.”
You could use a wine bottle or beer can to roll out your pie dough, but why risk it sticking or not getting to the right size? A rolling pin is an essential tool that is affordable and easy to transport if you take your holiday on the road.
Get the Fox Run marble rolling pin for $16.99.

However, not any pizza stone will do. Her marble pizza stone — the surface she used for heating bread, lumpia and all manner of shared bites — cracked in half after it had been left in the oven for far too long at too high a temperature. Werner later invested in the Emile Henry Pizza Stone, and two years later it is going strong for low-stress gatherings with friends and family.
Traditional holiday food is wonderful, but sometimes a simple potluck-style meal with only one, nonstick pan to wash is a fun alternative. And pizza stones are amazing for making pies with sturdy bottoms. Erin Jeanne McDowell, author of “The Book On Pie,” praises what a baking steel (which is essentially a pizza stone) can do for pies — it makes crusts so sturdy you can stack them. No more soggy bottoms!
Get the Emile Henry pizza stone for $59.95.

Samantha Milner, food blogger and recipe developer for Recipe This, learned her lesson after a botched holiday meal. “It was my first Thanksgiving with my chef husband, and he was at work,” she said. “I was 18 years old, and never cooked a roast dinner before, never mind a roasted turkey Thanksgiving dinner with all the trimmings.”
“I thought I was doing an amazing job. Then my hubby pointed out that I cooked the turkey upside down. The breast was all flattened out, but it tasted delicious. This moment inspired me to learn how to cook professionally. And it turns out breast-side-down keeps your turkey moist, at least according to Gordon Ramsay.”
Along the way, Milner discovered the joy of the air fryer. “It produces a better result than oven roasting, and is so much easier. There’s no brining to do — it’s a set and forget method.”
Twenty years later, Milner is still cooking turkeys upside down, but now she uses her air fryer, affording her more time with family and less time cooking and cleaning.
Get the Philips Airfryer for $249.95.