Meghan Markle turns lobbyist: Duchess writes to US politicians saying paid leave for parents should be a 'national right' in America - and tells how she and Harry were 'overwhelmed' after birth of second child Lilibet

Meghan urges politicians to recognise paid parental leave as a 'national right'
She details growing up on a 4.99-dollar salad bar and her first job at age 13 - despite being privately educated and her award-winning lighting director father
The Duchess of Sussex also revealed how both she and Prince Harry were 'overwhelmed' by the birth of their second child, Lilibet in June

By Jacob Thorburn For Mailonline and Rebecca English, Royal Editor For The Daily Mail

Published: 21:18 BST, 20 October 2021 | Updated: 03:02 BST, 21 October 2021

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The Duchess of Sussex has made her most overtly political intervention yet, sending an open letter to two senior US figures on proposed parental and sick leave legislation.

Meghan said she was writing to the Congress members not as an ‘elected official….[nor] a politician’ but as an ‘engaged citizen and a parent….and as a mom’.

The extraordinary 1,030-word letter – given to supportive media to share – asked the Speaker of the US House of Representatives Nancy Pelosi and the Majority Leader in the US Senate Chuck Schumer, both Democrats, to consider her plea ‘on behalf of my family, Archie and Lili and Harry’.

It was written on the Sussexes new post-royal letterhead, which prominently uses their titles but not their official cyphers.

The letter pertains to historic legislation moving through Congress, which would make 12 weeks of paid family and sick leave available to most workers as part of new federal policy.

The US is among a handful of nations that do not guarantee paid sick leave or maternity or paternity pay.

While the issue itself is not controversial and is supported by many in the US, Meghan’s very public statement is likely to ruffle feathers and add fuel to speculation that she has political ambitions.

Meghan Markle said she was writing the letter to House of Representatives speaker Nancy Pelosi and Senate majority leader Charles Schumer 'as a mom' and 'on behalf of millions of American families'

The US parental leave pay debate explained

The USA may be among the wealthiest nations in the world, but it does not offer a government-led paid parental leave scheme in 2021.

Instead, seven states, including California, New Jersey and Massachusetts, offer their own individual forms of paid leave for new parents.

Historically, such decisions have been left for private businesses to decide whether or not employees are offered such benefits. Approximately one quarter of American firms offer paid leave programmes.

But in April, President Joe Biden proposed a £163billion package of worker benefits that would see paid parental leave brought in from 2023.

If passed, workers could take up to 12 weeks of absence with their newborn while still receiving up to to two thirds of their pay packet.

The Democrat-backed policy would be funded by increasing tax on the top 1% of America's highest earners.

She writes: ‘I’m not an elected official, and I’m not a politician. I am, like many, an engaged citizen and a parent.

'And because you and your congressional colleagues have a role in shaping family outcomes for generations to come, that’s why I’m writing to you at this deeply important time – as a mom – to advocate for paid leave.’

Meghan, 40, claims the Covid pandemic has exposed ‘long-existing fault lines in our communities’ and says ‘millions of women’ have been forced to drop out of the workforce to look after their children as a result of schools and childcare providers being closed.

In one of the most astonishing parts of her letter, she suggests her family were impoverished even though her father was an Emmy award-winning lighting director and she was educated at private school.

She says: ‘I grew up on the $4.99 salad bar at Sizzler – it may have cost less back then (to be honest, I can’t remember) – but what I do remember was the feeling: I knew how hard my parents worked to afford this because even at five bucks, eating out was something special, and I felt lucky.

‘And as a Girl Scout, when my troop would go to dinner for a big celebration, it was back to that same salad bar or The Old Spaghetti Factory – because that’s what those families could afford.’

She also details how she had to work at the local frozen yogurt shop from the age of 13 just to make ends meet and, when she was older, to fill up her car.

‘I waited tables, babysat, and piecemealed jobs together to cover odds and ends,’ Meghan writes.

‘I worked all my life and saved when and where I could – but even that was a luxury – because usually it was about making ends meet and having enough to pay my rent and put gas in my car.’

Meghan reflected on her family life after the birth of Lilibet earlier this year, saying: 'In June, my husband and I welcomed our second child. Like any parents, we were overjoyed. Like many parents, we were overwhelmed'

Meghan Markle, pictured above with Prince Harry and her first born Archie, made a rare political statement on Wednesday

The standout quotes from Meghan Markle's latest political letter

'I grew up on the 4.99-dollar salad bar at Sizzler - it may have cost less back then (to be honest, I can't remember) - but what I do remember was the feeling: I knew how hard my parents worked to afford this because even at five bucks, eating out was something special, and I felt lucky.'

'I started working (at the local frozen yogurt shop) at the age of 13.'

'I waited tables, babysat, and piece-mealed jobs together to cover odds and ends.'

'I worked all my life and saved when and where I could - but even that was a luxury - because usually it was about making ends meet and having enough to pay my rent and put gas in my car.'

'In June, my husband and I welcomed our second child. Like any parents, we were overjoyed. Like many parents, we were overwhelmed.'

'I know how politically charged things can - and have - become. But this isn't about right or left, it's about right or wrong.'

'This is about putting families above politics. And for a refreshing change, it's something we all seem to agree on. At a point when everything feels so divisive, let this be a shared goal that unites us.'

In a more political vein, she says many of the US’s economic systems are ‘past their expiration date’ and ‘too many Americans are forced to shortchange themselves when it comes to what matters to them’.

The former Suits actress, who signed off as 'Meghan, The Duchess of Sussex', concluded the letter, by writing: 'If we're going to create a new era of family-first policies, let's make sure that includes a strong paid leave program for every American that's guaranteed, accessible, and encouraged without stigma or penalty.

'I know how politically charged things can – and have – become. But this isn't about right or left, it's about right or wrong.

'So, on behalf of my family, Archie and Lili and Harry, I thank you for considering this letter, and on behalf of all families, I ask you to ensure this consequential moment is not lost.'

The duchess concedes that she and Harry are lucky enough not have had to make ‘impossible’ choices about their work and their family.

‘No family should be faced with these decisions.

'No family should have to choose between earning a living and having the freedom to take care of their child (or a loved one, or themselves, as we would see with a comprehensive paid leave plan),’ she says.

‘I understand that with everything going on these days, people might find it easy to be apathetic about what’s happening in Washington DC... but with stakes this high none of us can afford to let apathy win.

‘So, on behalf of my family, Archie and Lili and Harry, I thank you for considering this letter, and on behalf of all families, I ask you to ensure this consequential moment is not lost.’

A spokesman for Meghan said she ‘cares deeply about advocating for families in the US and around the world’ and had partnered with three campaign organisations on the issue.

The Duchess went on to detail her humble beginnings: 'I grew up on the 4.99-dollar salad bar at Sizzler,' she said

A slice of happy family life: Sitting next to grandmother Jeanette, 12-year-old Meghan tucks into a cake at her cousin Donovan's birthday party in 1993

Meghan on her 11th birthday with mum Doria in 1992, seen in pictures kept by her uncle Joseph Johnson

The Sussexes have established a new life for themselves in the celebrity enclave of Montecito in California, buying a multimillion-pound home and launching a non-profit foundation.

Harry and Meghan have also signed lucrative deals – thought to be worth well over £100 million – with Spotify and Netflix that have given them the capital to pursue their new lifestyle and public goals.

Last week, MailOnline revealed how Prince Harry and Meghan Markle's move into the stock market will see them work alongside a band of self-styled Wall Street 'hippies'.

Ethic, a New York-based fintech asset manager, is run by a wealthy British former public schoolboy who starts meetings with 'gratitude sessions' where staff thank each other for their hard work and can pet the office dog given the title 'Chief Smile Officer'.

It is the couple's latest move in their efforts to build what experts believe could be a $1billion brand in the US after quitting the Royal Family for independence and to earn their own money.

Business experts declared themselves flummoxed at what an 'impact partner' is, although the best guess seemed to be a super-charged brand ambassador.

The Sussexes have not said how much of their fortune they have invested in the £1.3billion investment fund, having been introduced to the founders by a mutual friend.

Ethic, which was set up by Briton Jay Lipman - a red-haired Prince Harry lookalike from London now settled in the US having worked for Deutsche Bank - 'loves hippies' to invest with them, because the team, several of whom worked for JP Morgan and Goldman Sachs, consider themselves hippies too.

Meghan Markle's 1030-word paid parental leave plea letter in full

Dear Leader Schumer and Speaker Pelosi,

I'm not an elected official, and I'm not a politician. I am, like many, an engaged citizen and a parent.

And because you and your congressional colleagues have a role in shaping family outcomes for generations to come, that's how I'm writing to you at this deeply important time - as a mom - to advocate for paid parental leave.

Over the past 20 months, the pandemic has exposed long-existing fault lines in our communities. At an alarming rate, millions of women dropped out of the workforce, staying home with their kids as schools and day cares were closed, and looking after loved ones full-time. The working mom or parent is facing the conflict of being present or being paid. The sacrifice of either comes at a great cost.

For many, this sacrifice goes back furhter than the past 20 months; it's 20 or 30 years, even longer - decades of giving time, body and endless energy not just in pursuit of the American dream, but simply in the dream of stability.

I grew up on the $4.99 salad bar at Sizzler - it may have cost less back then (to be honest, I can't remember) - but what I do remember was the feeling; I knew how hard my parents worked to afford this because even at five bucks, eating out was something special and I felt lucky. And as a Girl Scout, when my troop would go for dinner for a big celebration, it was back to that same salad bar or The Old Spaghetti Factory - because that's what those families could afford to do too.

I started working (at the local frozen yogurt shop) at the age of 13. I waited tables, babysat, and piece-mealed jobs together to cover odds and ends. I worked all my life and saved when and where I could - but even that was a luxury - because usually it was about making ends meet and having enough to pay my rent and put gas in my car.

I expect many of your constituents have their own version of that story. Perhaps you do too. People in our country work incredibly hard, and yet the ask is soft; for a level playing field to achieve their version of a common dream - what is fair, and equal and right. Many of our economic systems are past their expiration date, and as you well know, too many Americans are forced to shortchange themselves when it comes to what matters to them.

In June, my husband and I welcomed our second child. Like any parents, we were overjoyed. Like many parents, we were overwhelmed. Like fewer parents, we weren't confronted with the harsh reality of either spending those first few critical months with our baby or going back to work. We knew we could take her home, and in that vital (and sacred) stage, devote any and everything to our kids and to our family. We knew that by doing so, we wouldn't have to make impossible choices about childcare, work, and medical care that so many have to make every single day.

No family should be faced with these decisions. No family should have to choose between earning a living and having the freedom to take care of their child (or a loved one, or themselves, as we would see with a comprehensive paid leave plan).

In taking care of your child, you take care of your community, and you take care of your country - because when paid leave is a right, we're creating a foundation that helps address mental health outcomes, health care costs, and economic strength at the starting line. Instead, as it stands now, we spend a fortune as a country paying into symptoms rather than causes. I understand that with everything going on these days, people might find it easy to be apathetic about what's happening in Washington D.C. And then equally, when it feels like your voice doesn't matter, you tend to use it less often, but with stakes this high none of us can afford to let apathy win.

I'm writing to you on behalf millions of American families who are using their voices to say that comprehensive paid leave should not be a place to compromise or negotiate. In fact, most nations already have paid leave policies in place. Estonia, for example, offers over a year and a half of leave to be shared by new parents. Many other countries have robust programs that give months of time for both parents (birth or adoptive) to be at home with their child. The United States in stark contrast does not federally guarantee any person a single day of paid leave. And fewer than one in four workers has dedicated paid family leave through their employer. I'm sure you agree that if we are to continue to be exceptional, then we can't be the exception.

The families you represent need your strong leadership. With paid leave on the cusp of becoming a national reality, I trust you will meet this moment. I know you must hear from your constituents about the choices they are facing every day to make ends meet and care for their families.

Paid leave should be a national right, rather than a patchwork option limited to those whose employers have policies in place, or those who live in one of the few states where a leave program exists. If we're going to create a new era of family-first policies, let's make sure that includes a strong paid leave program for every American that's guaranteed, accessible, and encouraged without stigma or penalty.

I know how politically charged things can – and have – become. But this isn't about right or left, it's about right or wrong. This is about putting families above politics. And for a refreshing change, it's something we all seem to agree on. At a point when everything feels so divisive, let this be a shared goal that unites us.

So, on behalf of my family, Archie and Lili and Harry, I thank you for considering this letter, and on behalf of all families, I ask you to ensure this consequential moment is not lost.

As ever,

Meghan, The Duchess of Sussex