"This is not what it looks like!" Noah Beck screams at a group of teenagers in the distance. We are eating breakfast at a restaurant in Southampton, New York, and the 20-year-old Beck, who with almost 30 million followers is one of the most popular men on the social media platform TikTok, is playing with a bowl of oatmeal and peanut butter. Beck’s big smile is noticeably white, and even though he’s known for his chiseled abdominal muscles, he’s somehow even more swole in real life—I feel every muscle when he embraces me. As three young women make their way toward us, Beck raises his voice for a second time: "People are going to assume we're on a date!"
Beck is anxious about being seen with a woman because he is in a well-documented relationship with the social media personality Dixie D'Amelio (54 million followers), who is the older sister of Charli D'Amelio, who is the most followed (over 120 million) person on TikTok. The couple’s fans monitor their relationship obsessively, searching for clues to its status within the most seemingly innocuous videos. Beck tells me that this is his first interview without his manager present, and he boasts that he is not media trained.