Chingsanghoih Guite/Hauterrfly
Chingsanghoih Guite/Hauterrfly
Relationships are very complicated, and so are our emotions. We feel so much, and speak of so little. In fact, even being articulate about our feelings—in a generation that acts so numb—is an art. I try, to be able to express myself when necessary and I must admit, it’s very difficult for me to do so. Sometimes, I feel like swallowing my feelings and forever holding my peace seems a less scary option. It takes a great deal of courage for a celebrity to open up and share their vulnerabilities for all to know. Minissha Lamba, who recently opened up about her separation from ex Ryan Tham, has bared her soul once again.
In an interview with RJ Siddharth Kannan, she revealed that an ex of hers—a Bollywood actor—cheated on her. Minissha Lamba revealed they were in a relationship for a year and he cheated on her because essentially, he was “a big flirt”.
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That has left a sour taste in her mouth and she decided to not date anyone (not just actors) from the entertainment industry. She said there is “so much temptation around all the time.” I mean, a lot of people say that if you trust your partner, you should know that they won’t cheat on you. Firstly, an honest person who loves you can end up slipping due to certain circumstances. Your relationship is sucking at the moment, he is on an outdoor shoot with a stunning actress in the romantic locales of Switzerland. There is a spark between them, and before you know it, they end up finding solace in each other’s arms or bed. I am not saying everyone does that. What I am saying is you can’t simply say ‘my partner can never slip.’ You need boundaries for that, so the temptation doesn’t find you or him off-guard.
Having said that, some people have a secure attachment style and some people don’t. It takes a lot to work on your anxiety and for such people, I feel it’s best to find someone who isn’t quite flirtatious. “I don’t want to say anything because there are a lot of people who are dating actors and it is not right to make a statement that will hurt somebody. But this was a decision that I took for myself and I would rather not. Because relationships, I feel, already are so difficult,” she added.
However, the good news is that she is currently in a “happy relationship with a lovely person,” she told Times of India. We’re glad for her. She knows what she wants out of her relationships and seems like she has found it!
