Thread: Made a mistake with a girl

Originally Posted by DallasCowboyz

So there's me and Amy, and we're all inseparable, right? Just big time in love. And then about four months down the road, the idiot gear kicks in, and I ask about the ex-boyfriend, which, as we all know, is a really dumb move, but you know how it is don't really want to know, but you just have to know, right? Stupid guy bull****. Anyway she starts telling me all about him - how they fell in love, and how they went out for a couple of years, how they lived together, her mother likes me better, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah - and I'm okay. But then she drops the bomb on me, and the bomb is this: it seems that a couple of times, while they were going out, he'd brought some people to bed with them - ménage a trois, I believe it's called. Now this just blows my mind, right? I mean, I am not used to that sort of thing. I was raised Catholic, for God's sakes.

So I'm totally weirded out by this right? And I just start blasting her - like I don't know how to deal with what I'm feeling, so I figure the best way is by calling her "slut", and tell her she was used - I mean, I'm out for blood. I really want to hurt this girl. And I'm like "What the **** is your problem?" and she's just all calmly trying to tell me, like, it was that time, it was that place, and she doesn't think she should apologize because she doesn't feel that she's done anything wrong. And I'm like, "Oh, really?" That's when I look her straight in the eye and tell her it's over. I walk.


It was a mistake. I wasn't disgusted with her, I was afraid. At that moment, I felt small - like...like I'd lacked experience, like I'd never be on her level, like I'd never be enough for her or something like that, you know what I'm sayin'? But what I did not get - she didn't care. She wasn't looking for that guy anymore. She was...she was looking for me, for - for the Bob. But, uh, by the time I figured this all out, it was too late, you know. She'd moved on, and all I had to show for it was some foolish pride, which then gave way to regret. She was the girl, I know that now. But I pushed her away. So I've spent every day since thinking of her.

Well, just know that the portion of men who actually could still feel unthreatened by a woman's unleashed sexuality is so miniscule that it's hard to measure. Your girl is a lily white virgin compared to me. Kudos to you for figuring out that you could have had a relationship with her.

Fact is that bad sex is all over the place. Our entire disciplinary system is designed to get people to be less sexual. Yet, sex keeps people hopeful and alive. Being sexual might not help a company's bottom dollar, but it helps the individual love life. That's why it's not good to tell a woman she's a slut. That's a wholistic rejection which can be a huge shock if a woman hasn't heard it since she was knee high to a grasshopper. To keep on dealing with people who prissily reject her glorious sexuality, she'd have to become more and more macho - even as she wants to be more and more feminine.

So, from her perspective, you made her feel like a man. If she wants to feel like a woman, she'd have to find someone who wasn't hateful of sex. Since sex is the foremost underlying purpose of a relationship, she's actually better off. I know that doesn't help you, but you might find someone else. It's a big world.

awesome movie, Chasing Amy



probably kevin smith's best movie (ded fkn Srs)

Originally Posted by soberchuck

On RC, someone neg

Only get five a day, why waste it on this little minnow?

Originally Posted by RealLifeAlpha

awesome movie, Chasing Amy



probably kevin smith's best movie (ded fkn Srs)

Dogma wins but Chasing Amy close second

Go to the relationship help section, you fruity phaggot.

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Originally Posted by MegaSloot

Well, just know that the portion of men who actually could still feel unthreatened by a woman's unleashed sexuality is so miniscule that it's hard to measure. Your girl is a lily white virgin compared to me. Kudos to you for figuring out that you could have had a relationship with her.

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Originally Posted by Microshaft

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Move on man, she probably has, a bf who cares about her now and isn't an insecure little POS - I think that's what they call it.

Originally Posted by MegaSloot

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