Thread: need some serious advice about my first date. Need real answers to huge questions

What do I tell her when she asks me what I do for fun??

Give me some legit answers man. I am a ****ing autist. All I do is misc.

Might just tell her I play wow or some **** lol

You should tell her exactly what you do for fun.

Originally Posted by NMS3

You should tell her exactly what you do for fun.

dude all i do is misc and think about my escort crush and how I'm gonna plan dates and spoil her next time I see her.

@Nicklol

Originally Posted by NMS3

You should tell her exactly what you do for fun.

terrible advice.

tell her you play rugby and go drinking with your friends. if not you’ll for ever be an incel

Originally Posted by bfdehewdbyywhn

terrible advice.

tell her you play rugby and go drinking with your friends. if not you’ll for ever be an incel

dude i don't drink or have friends.That's too big of a lie. Not trying to smash. Trying to get a gf. Need a lie that doesn't go against my entire persona.

tell her you like daggers

seriously though, if she knows you are a turbo autist, then be honest. Say something like "I havent found anything that has really grabbed my interest so i spend alot of time generally browsing the internet. Hopefully, you and I could take up Some new hobbies together."

Originally Posted by tank2003

tell her you like daggers

seriously though, if she knows you are a turbo autist, then be honest. Say something like "I havent found anything that has really grabbed my interest so i spend alot of time generally browsing the internet. Hopefully, you and I could take up Some new hobbies together."

good response lol. think im just gonna say I smoke weed and play WoW cause I used to do those things and know how to talk about them.

Originally Posted by tank2003

tell her you like daggers

seriously though, if she knows you are a turbo autist, then be honest. Say something like "I havent found anything that has really grabbed my interest so i spend alot of time generally browsing the internet. Hopefully, you and I could take up Some new hobbies together."

This right here. Trust me OP, you’d be surprised with how far honesty gets you. Be yourself, and don’t worry about trying to impress her. If she likes you, cool. If she doesn’t, also cool. Be yourself and honest.

Originally Posted by NMS3

This right here. Trust me OP, you’d be surprised with how far honesty gets you. Be yourself, and don’t worry about trying to impress her. If she likes you, cool. If she doesn’t, also cool. Be yourself and honest.

my concern is if she asks me what i browse on the internet lol

Originally Posted by imbored21

good response lol. think im just gonna say I smoke weed and play WoW cause I used to do those things and know how to talk about them.

I wouldnt if you are genuinely interested in her. Honesty is paramount. Maybe she knows what you do and will be testing you for honesty? Why would you WANT to start a relationship off with a big lie like that? You seem like you are ashamed to tell her that. Just gently convey that as well. "I dont have any hobbies so i internet and it embarrassing because of how people inevitably view me afterwords. But i'm working on fixing it though."

Originally Posted by jasticus

This is your first mistake man. You can’t go into something trying to Gf her. You’ll treat her as a friend and you’ll get nothing. You have to go into it wanting to fk her. You HAVE to develop sexual attraction from the first date or it’s over Srs

**** man. Should I ask her to come over after dinner for sex? I'm not good at jestermaxing and building chemistry. I can make girls laugh but not in a flirty sexual way. I'm down to bang her brains out but not going to jestermax for it. Just want to chill lol not stress myself out with redpill game kino banter ****. Don't want to be a jester man.

Originally Posted by tank2003

I wouldnt if you are genuinely interested in her. Honesty is paramount. Maybe she knows what you do and will be testing you for honesty? Why would you WANT to start a relationship off with a big lie like that? You seem like you are ashamed to tell her that. Just gently convey that as well. "I dont have any hobbies so i internet and it embarrassing because of how people inevitably view me afterwords. But i'm working on fixing it though."

you're right. I'll just use your response and if she wants me to elaborate, I will just say I post on a gay body building forum and talk to shirtless men. Maybe at least she will think I'm funny.

Originally Posted by NMS3

This right here. Trust me OP, you’d be surprised with how far honesty gets you. Be yourself, and don’t worry about trying to impress her. If she likes you, cool. If she doesn’t, also cool. Be yourself and honest.

lmaoo. no better way to dry a girl’s snatch than saying you’re a nerd with no friends. she’ll definitely love you clinging to her for attention 24/7

thought the misc was blackpilled

Originally Posted by bfdehewdbyywhn

lmaoo. no better way to dry a girl’s snatch than saying you’re a nerd with no friends. she’ll definitely love you clinging to her for attention 24/7

thought the misc was blackpilled

i mean honestly i know they're escorts but when I tell escorts they don't give a ****. Like I know I'm paying them but they still seem to like me and enjoy my company even after discovering I'm an autistic loser. IDK how different normal girls will be. Oh well. Better to just be honest.

Originally Posted by tank2003

tell her you like daggers

seriously though, if she knows you are a turbo autist, then be honest. Say something like "I havent found anything that has really grabbed my interest so i spend alot of time generally browsing the internet. Hopefully, you and I could take up Some new hobbies together."

I think the last sentence is good. Saying you just browse the internet for a hobby and can't find one sounds weird to me though. Just be honest and be who you are. Honesty has always gotten me further than trying to be someone you're not, it can be exhausting. Also, if she doesn't accept your lifestyle and your want to have more, if you really do, then she is not the one for you.

Pics?

This might sound crazy but have you considered......... actually getting an interesting hobby?

Originally Posted by bfdehewdbyywhn

lmaoo. no better way to dry a girl’s snatch than saying you’re a nerd with no friends. she’ll definitely love you clinging to her for attention 24/7

thought the misc was blackpilled

Obviously not the correct way to word it homie. “I spend most of my free time going out by myself for a drink or two at the bar, training at the gym, and studying (if in school).” Sounds fine to me.