Thread: How do you guys deal with dating?

I'm back into dating after a long break and it's not very good.

Sure if i play the numbers games or drop my standards I can slay but when I meet women off datng apps

they are very very very similar

a) emotional baggage or some issues

b) usually already had a lot of boyfriends or slept around a lot (can tell by what the they say)

c) not even attractive (don't look like their pictures in real life)

d) these girls are always on social media/tinder/bumble/dating apps (no thanks jeff!)


Just does't seem like it is worth it.

When your life revolves around women, you’ll let this stuff bother you. Most women flock to men who spend their time getting their stuff together. If you’re just looking for hookups, find one that accepts visa...way cheaper, and generally hotter.

Originally Posted by TallTigerTwo

When your life revolves around women, you’ll let this stuff bother you. Most women flock to men who spend their time getting their stuff together. If you’re just looking for hookups, find one that accepts visa...way cheaper, and generally hotter.

I never really understood people say "work on yourself" and the women will come.. you still need to chase women.

Originally Posted by Silencespeaks

Oh I gave up.

I just do fwb now.

Me too i think

Originally Posted by AlabamaLad

I never really understood people say "work on yourself" and the women will come.. you still need to chase women.

Yeah you’re right...they love being fawned all over. I’d do the opposite of what I said and send cute emojis to them on a daily basis. If they don’t respond within 10 minutes, I’d call them to make sure they’re okay. Sending them flowers and/or a promise ring is also a game changer.

HTH that helps

Originally Posted by TallTigerTwo

Yeah you’re right...they love being fawned all over. I’d do the opposite of what I said and send cute emojis to them on a daily basis. If they don’t respond within 10 minutes, I’d call them to make sure they’re okay. Sending them flowers and/or a promise ring is also a game changer.

HTH that helps

So you're telling me if I go to the gym train hard, work hard at my job and play sports with other men all of a sudden all these HBB's wll be lining up out of no where?

modern dating is bull**** and a waste of time. Find a woman to court.

Originally Posted by AlabamaLad

I never really understood people say "work on yourself" and the women will come.. you still need to chase women.



Me too i think

No you don't need to chase them. If you got a 10/10 body and lots of money they will come to you. You don't gotta chase anything at that point.

Can you expand on point b)

What do they say?

you have a decent chance to lock down a partner in your early 20's imo

if youre late 20's and over the tour is over.

so try and find a girl in college or just out of college to settle down with and never look back [srs]

Originally Posted by WishIWasJawBrah

Can you expand on point b)

What do they say?

I met a cute girl 22. She told me on the first date she had 4 boyfriends and had an abortion (serious). So in my head i'm going to assume she's probably ****ed a tonne of guys. We slept on the first date. Ghosted her the next day.

I'm not saying this to brag. I felt disgusted.

Originally Posted by DeletThis

you have a decent chance to lock down a partner in your early 20's imo

if youre late 20's and over the tour is over.

so try and find a girl in college or just out of college to settle down with and never look back [srs]

Yep, the ship has sailed for me.

Originally Posted by AlabamaLad

So you're telling me if I go to the gym train hard, work hard at my job and play sports with other men all of a sudden all these HBB's wll be lining up out of no where?

Let me paint you a picture....after reading my post you said, ‘fugit, I’m gonna do me,’ and went on a 6 month hellacious workout regiment and completely changed your physique. You look at yourself in the mirror and can’t help but get a bonrar from the mere sight of yourself. This new you suddenly gains substantial confidence and excels at your job where your boss offers you an incredible raise. With this new money and newfound confidence, you pull up to the field in your new Hellcat where your friends are warming up and proceed to strip down to reveal your shredded physique with a 700 HP monster as the back drop. No doubt, your close friend and teammate, Dale, takes notice and instantly achieves a throbbing airrection. Shortly after dominating the game and ‘incidentally’ grazing Dale’s meat countless times, you both notice a strange spark between the two of you. Suddenly, you decide to pursue this and try men realizing what you want has been in front of you the whole time. You think this couldn’t happen?

Originally Posted by TallTigerTwo

Let me paint you a picture....after reading my post you said, ‘fugit, I’m gonna do me,’ and went on a 6 month hellacious workout regiment and completely changed your physique. You look at yourself in the mirror and can’t help but get a bonrar from the mere sight of yourself. This new you suddenly gains substantial confidence and excels at your job where your boss offers you an incredible raise. With this new money and newfound confidence, you pull up to the field in your new Hellcat where your friends are warming up and proceed to strip down to reveal your shredded physique with a 700 HP monster as the back drop. No doubt, your close friend and teammate, Dale, takes notice and instantly achieves a throbbing airrection. Shortly after dominating the game and ‘incidentally’ grazing Dale’s meat countless times, you both notice a strange spark between the two of you. Suddenly, you decide to pursue this and try men realizing what you want has been in front of you the whole time. You think this couldn’t happen?

negged mate
can tell you live on the internet.

Originally Posted by AlabamaLad

Yep, the ship has sailed for me.

cheers brah

im 28 tour is over for me too [srss]

either be a top tier chad or don't date (srs)

I get depressed and watch porn, try again then rinse and repeat.

Super cute girl at work is hot and cold with me. Shell ac super interested giving me fuk me eyes and overly friendly and then another day be distant and not pay much attention to me. Anyone know what this means?