Thread: Met a girl after years. Should I ask out (srs)

There is this cute hippie chick in this cafe I like to visit. Since the first day I went, she's SUPER bubbly and smiley around me, I love it. LOVE Bubbly girls. Today, she started saying if I have been to the butterfly exhibit downtown, and some other places. Said this one place would be good to have a picnic. I'm thinking next week I may ask if she wants to come with me to check out this historic estates with a lot of cool plants and an old house (she's into plants and asked me if I'm into plants). She just moved here like a month and a half ago, I think she's in college. Yesterday we were chatting and after a while she's just staring at me with this big smile on her face.... so I start my order, and she like snaps out of it, "oh sorry!".

I haven't been on a real date in like 4 years. No dating apps on my phone.

But I'm scared of real intimacy misc because:
-I had a hair transplant 4 years ago, but my hair is still thin all over. I cover it up with hair fibers, but dating someone after a while they will probably find out.
-I don't have a big penor and am anxious about it.
-my last long term gf I dated 2.5 years but she broke my heart. I have been on a strict no intimacy/only mindless smashing mindset since then. And it doesn't make me happy.

Sounds like she's hinting at you asking her, do it. Worst that happens is you never go back there if she says no

Are you really 31? If she seems into you ask her out. If your hair or cawk size ends up being a deal breaker for her, she wasn't worth it anyway.

Originally Posted by WorkdayExec

LOVE this for you

thanks boyo. she's making me feel something after feeling empty inside. It's just an infectious smile and bubbly outgoing, feminine personality.

Originally Posted by Titansfan08

Sounds like she's hinting at you asking her, do it. Worst that happens is you never go back there if she says no

yes she definitely is. will ask her out this week when I go to get a smoothie.

Originally Posted by nm1891

Are you really 31? If she seems into you ask her out. If your hair or cawk size ends up being a deal breaker for her, she wasn't worth it anyway.

I am 30. I'll just never go swimming or take a shower with her if things progress.

Originally Posted by martoch

Is your phone's camera broken or is my internet lagging like hell today?

Her pics aren't loading.

wish I had a pic of her before posting. it crossed my mind before I posted.

Was her instagram broken or something? I can't see the pics.

Why bother

Yeah, maybe she is off the cawk carousel now and ready to be wifed up.

Originally Posted by Nonsense916

Why bother

Better just keep whackin boyo

Originally Posted by Judgment

The moment she asked if you've been any of those places, your next words should have been: "No, but I'd sure like you to take me there some time. What are you doing tomorrow?"

I know!!! Next time I'm asking her if she has been to these historic estates that have a botanical garden. Then say "lets go when you are off".

Originally Posted by Nonsense916

Why bother

Originally Posted by BigBoyPants

What size are we talking?

5x4....

Originally Posted by AFricaDrillMusi

how many bishes have you smashed since then?



lol @ never swimming or shower in front of her

like 100, mostly old sloots though.

Originally Posted by BigBoyPants

this lol. im surprised she even likes your insecure ass. she's throwing you a lifeline here. man up bro srs

I will, srs.

Jesus dude, you're 31. You sound 21.

- She likes you.
- No one cares about your hair.
- Look up safe jelqing / penor stretching exercises.

Be assertive. have the mindset of, "im going to show you a good time". And dont be a puppy dog, sounds like there's an age gap and she likes older men for the reasons all young girls like older men.

CONFIDENCE.

Originally Posted by TXBuddy

Yeah, maybe she is off the cawk carousel now and ready to be wifed up.

when she knows it’s OP’s turn

Originally Posted by wildchild11

Jesus dude, you're 31. You sound 21.

- She likes you.
- No one cares about your hair.
- Look up safe jelqing / penor stretching exercises.

Be assertive. have the mindset of, "im going to show you a good time". And dont be a puppy dog, sounds like there's an age gap and she likes older men for the reasons all young girls like older men.

CONFIDENCE.

Girls care about hair, but women don’t.

Originally Posted by TimeTravelerBro

Have you asked her out?

Inb4 she rejects you lmao

Strong fantasies you're having

That feel when you ask a random sloots number, make her laugh, then rejects you for some trivial chit.

These sloots will nitpick anything. Good luck tho

no i will next time she's working and I'm there. She won't reject me, I know she's into me. It's been too obvious.

Originally Posted by wildchild11

Jesus dude, you're 31. You sound 21.

- She likes you.
- No one cares about your hair.
- Look up safe jelqing / penor stretching exercises.

Be assertive. have the mindset of, "im going to show you a good time". And dont be a puppy dog, sounds like there's an age gap and she likes older men for the reasons all young girls like older men.

CONFIDENCE.

I think they do care about hair, a lot. I will just hide it as long as I can. Will start a penor program today, srs.

Originally Posted by Droopdx

Girls care about hair, but women don’t.

Yep, pretty miuch

Originally Posted by ScramFranklin

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I think they do care about hair, a lot. I will just hide it as long as I can.
.

Sure...girls care about hair, height, facial aesthetics. There's a group of men who care that they care, and go through life passively.

And then there are the guys who dont care. Manlets, bald men, ugly dudes get laid every day because they dont give a shyt about that stuff.

Up to you which group you wanna be in

Originally Posted by skinnyfat88

OP - do it.

Regardless of the outcome if you desire to get back in the dating game you gotta get over your insecurities and just go for it.
Remember all the positive things you have to offer and try to not think about what's holding you back.

I will. I've been avoiding it so long. I had honestly forgotten how good it feels to have a girl who seem into you and is really nice and sweet.

Originally Posted by BigBoyPants

maybe she will, phaggot. you don't ask a girl out because you think she'll say no. you ask her because you like her and you think she likes you. say you want to get to know her better

a real man asks and isn't upset if a girl rejects him. he did his part. maybe she's not into you. maybe she is into you but she's got a bf or some ****. it's not always black and white. gotta prod her a bit. ask her if she wants to do xyz. then go from there

You are right. She could. My reply was only due to the strong indicators she has given me.

Inb4 op is going to Dutch bros where they force their employees to ask about the customers day. Hate those bitches

“Heyyyyy so what are you up to today”

“Working”

“Omg that sounds fun”