Apr 23, 2021
The lack of directness leaves your partner without guidance about what they can do to solve the problem.
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Statements that directly assault your partner’s character can be especially damaging to a relationship.
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Avoid making generalizations about your partner and don't put your partner on the defensive.
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The more complaints you raise, the less likely it is that any will get fully discussed and resolved.
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When you interrupt your partner, you're not giving them a chance to express themselves.
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Defensiveness doesn't solve problems. It's important to hear your partner out and consider what they're saying.
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In addition to listening to your partner, you need to take their perspective and try to understand where they're coming from.
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Such behavior is extremely disrespectful and implies that you're disgusted with your partner.
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If you see yourself falling into negative patterns, consider taking a time out from your argument.
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