Thread: Should I Ask this girl out - need misc's help!!

So I met this girl and went out with her 7 weeks in a row. Past 2 weeks, she's been going cold, I asked her to make plans and she didn't give me a straight answer. "I think im free, my friends invited me to something but maybe ill say no".

So I went NC. Didn't reply to her last BS message and we didn't speak in 10 days. Friday night, she "drunk" calls me, asks me where I've been and I owe her an explanation lol. We speak a bit and I text her the next day, we start talking again.

This weekend she mentions she'll be in the city. But mentions nothing about us getting together. I want to ask her but it sounds like she might have plans IDK. What do? Should I ask her or wait for her to bring it up

Originally Posted by RJLXA

have you smashed yet?

I dun goofed. Spent a night with her, had chance to, was asking me to, but didn't do it because before we got the room, she was questioning me if the only reason why I want to spend a night with her, is to smash.

Will def smash next opportunity.

Originally Posted by badbl00d

You went out with a girl 7 weeks in a row, and then the last 2 weeks grows cold, and can't give you a straight answer? She then hits you up drunk, and tries to manipulate the situation?

A. She's was seeing you and another guy. He won out over the past 2 weeks, and she is trying to let you down gently by basically not saying anything.
B. She gets upset, drinks and calls you looking for validation when he's not around.
C. She's coming to hang where you live, and didn't mention anything about plans.

Bro...It's done. You had a good little run with her...Hopefully you got to fuk, but you need to stop caping for this chick.

I agree with you, that's why I went NC and was in the process of forgetting her, even though I really liked her. But then she had to call me and that just messes me head up. And the nerve she has to act upset with me, like she was available that weekend I asked her out. and I stopped talking to her.

Originally Posted by badbl00d

She's into head games bro. Just let it ride. A chick who wants to actually be with you, will be with you, and it's nothing that will stop her. Not her folks. Not her friends. Not other dudes. Nothing.

I know that it shouldn't be this hard. Basically it's like banging my head against the wall with this girl. And she tries to make me look like the bad guy. Like I don't care enough. Whenever I put an effort, she starts to play games. Whenever I walk away, she starts to pursue me.

Congratulations you played yourself

Originally Posted by miscaware1

I dun goofed. Spent a night with her, had chance to, was asking me to, but didn't do it because before we got the room, she was questioning me if the only reason why I want to spend a night with her, is to smash.

Will def smash next opportunity.

You failed the chit test. She thinks you're a spineless beta male.

I think you owe someone an explanation, OP.

-Ask her out, she says no....you don't go out with her
-Don't ask her out, you don't go out with her
-Ask her out and she says yes, you go out with her

If you don't ask, the answer is always no.

you went on multiple dates and never smashed? the **** are you 12?

OP turns out you are a Lesbian and she's not into that