Thread: How do I break away from the "lifter" identity ?

So me and my wife (no pics) are in a group chat with 4 other couples. We got invited out to dinner with them tomorrow and the host said "Loochi, you can bring your raisens with you xD" and some sloot chimes in "Might be too calorilific, make sure to measure them, I got your back bro" (wtf lol) - Now I never talk about lifting or nutrition in real life and especially with this group specifically (buncha Muslim Arabs lol). On the misc however, that's all I like to post about hence my cringy posts. The only reason I can think of for them to bring that sorta sh!t up was because in 2020 I was prepping for a bodybuilding show so I brought some food with me like a ph4gg0t to one of their events. But it was ONE time literally.. I'd understand if all I did was talk about lifting but I legit don't (other than the misc srs)

In anycase, I wanted to say something smart ass about Ramadan which would really trigger them but that'd be immature and petty as fuark. I know it's light hearted but it makes me roll my eyes because now I'm seen as that "guy".

Maybe I'm missing something ? This is why I came to seek the great misc for advice.. You guys always say it how it is and I might learn something or two.

Cheers

If you're serious about your nutrition than fuk what those sloots think. Go be an IFBB eating a tupperware container full of chicken and rice in the middle of Ruth Chris

Originally Posted by Loochi

So me and my wife (no pics) are in a group chat with 4 other couples. We got invited out to dinner with them tomorrow and the host said "Loochi, you can bring your raisens with you xD" and some sloot chimes in "Might be too calorilific, make sure to measure them, I got your back bro" (wtf lol) - Now I never talk about lifting or nutrition in real life and especially with this group specifically (buncha Muslim Arabs lol). On the misc however, that's all I like to post about hence my cringy posts. The only reason I can think of for them to bring that sorta sh!t up was because in 2020 I was prepping for a bodybuilding show so I brought some food with me like a ph4gg0t to one of their events. But it was ONE time literally.. I'd understand if all I did was talk about lifting but I legit don't (other than the misc srs)

In anycase, I wanted to say something smart ass about Ramadan which would really trigger them but that'd be immature and petty as fuark. I know it's light hearted but it makes me roll my eyes because now I'm seen as that "guy".

Maybe I'm missing something ? This is why I came to seek the great misc for advice.. You guys always say it how it is and I might learn something or two.

Cheers

No, don't bring religion into this.

Honestly, you've done nothing wrong. But for people who don't lift having someone over that brings their own food gives them enough fuel to keep rambling on and on even years later. They are very unaware about prepping for a competition and to them chit like that is just next level, over the top, like you're a freak of some sort because you want to flex your muscles in front of strangers for points.

Best to just ignore their "jokes", not worth your time.

I am a natty twink so Im viewed as athletic at best, which is fine by me. The tipping point was probably when you brought that phaggy tupperware, NEVER do this. Cringiest chit ever, if you're prepping just stay home

And stop giving a fuk about those phags and their opinion of you

Originally Posted by xam1996

I am a natty twink so Im viewed as athletic at best, which is fine by me. The tipping point was probably when you brought that phaggy tupperware, NEVER do this. Cringiest chit ever, if you're prepping just stay home

And stop giving a fuk about those phags and their opinion of you

So what is it... Stay home, or stop giving a fuk? If you stop giving a fuk you can just go ahead and have your tupperware meals at your friends' place

Originally Posted by SashaGab

So what is it... Stay home, or stop giving a fuk? If you stop giving a fuk you can just go ahead and have your tupperware meals at your friends' place

He should just stop giving a fuk, but he likely won't or he wouldnt have made this thread

Originally Posted by ChrisLS8

If you're serious about your nutrition than fuk what those sloots think. Go be an IFBB eating a tupperware container full of chicken and rice in the middle of Ruth Chris

I'm serious when I need to be (prepping for a show) I am not competing this year, pro show cancelled and honestly it's a blessing in disguise because I don't feel like prepping again... I legit just want to look good in clothes now. Work on arms etc

Originally Posted by SashaGab

No, don't bring religion into this.

Honestly, you've done nothing wrong. But for people who don't lift having someone over that brings their own food gives them enough fuel to keep rambling on and on even years later. They are very unaware about prepping for a competition and to them chit like that is just next level, over the top, like you're a freak of some sort because you want to flex your muscles in front of strangers for points.

Best to just ignore their "jokes", not worth your time.

Thanks for your reply mate. I did ignore it. Bring it up years later ? Damn that's sad lol.

Originally Posted by xam1996

I am a natty twink so Im viewed as athletic at best, which is fine by me. The tipping point was probably when you brought that phaggy tupperware, NEVER do this. Cringiest chit ever, if you're prepping just stay home

And stop giving a fuk about those phags and their opinion of you

Bro I don't care what they think, well I care to an extent if I ahve to make a thread and ask the misc right ? I don't want to just stay at home bro lol. I enjoy going out with my wife and son and I only take one meal with me IF I am prepping for a show, IF. Last show was 2020, the one before that was 2013, rest of the time I never do that. Btw bro, what is it "cringy" ?

Originally Posted by Kewbrah

Posting on Misc should kill off any impression that you lift

lmao

Originally Posted by CAP2

It's because you are that guy, they gotta unload their Facebook meme knowledge of bodybuilders on someone and you fit the bill.

Whats wrong with being that guy tho, who gives a chit. It's a bit of light banter, dno why this is even an issue.

What did you reply?

Yeah I guess so bro.. I guess because no one else in the group gets that sorta **** ya know ? Like if they said EOD is that guy and Loochi is that guy and BigMane is that guy.. Hey, I get it. But no one else gets given 'sh!t' if that makes sense. I didn't reply.. I mean, it didn't rile me up THAT bad, but I've noticed it's a reoccuring theme with that group especially

Originally Posted by CAP2

What did you reply?

Perfect, let's reschedule

Aren't you like 5'6? Just stop lifting

Originally Posted by navid93

Seems like ball busting among friends

If you’re friend is super jacked you’re gonna give him chit for it, just the way it is

This.

Just say something funny back or laugh it off. It’s not that serious imo.

Hey misc

Respect all your replies, I expected worse from you guys lol.

I replied "I'll pass. We're not fan of Indian food but you enjoy. Thanks for the invite."

One of them replies : "Loochi just come man. Bring your own food it's ok"

LOL !

I jus feel like replying "she was the best man" and confuse everyone

Originally Posted by Loochi

Hey misc

Respect all your replies, I expected worse from you guys lol.

I replied "I'll pass. We're not fan of Indian food but you enjoy. Thanks for the invite."

One of them replies : "Loochi just come man. Bring your own food it's ok"

LOL !

I jus feel like replying "she was the best man" and confuse everyone

PLEASE do so and post reactions here, give us the content we've been craving for

You should ask them if they're mirin'.