Thread: Need advice from the wisest miscers

I know there is a huge influx of ex gf threads. I have a dilemma with mine and would appreciate older miscers who are married, or have been married, or dated, basically real life experience miscers to share their opinions. No 20 y/o fukboy miscers, alts, or incels that have never kissed a girl that wasn’t a prostitute allowed


Ex gf and I broke up recently. It was a 2.5 year relationship. Reason we broke up is because me being a 25 year old 6’2” handsome dude, I wanted to game and flirt and fuk other chicks. Everywhere I went I wanted them. I think it also stems from me being way less attractive in my teens, so this is like a psychological desire to make up for it.


My ex is 2 years younger than me. She is really gorgeous and her personality traits are amazing. Extremely loyal and truthful, good family values and a huge heart. Overall a very loving person


It’s been about 2 and a half weeks since no contact and I’m hurting very badly. I’ve already messed around with 4 different chicks and banged 1, and while it is fun while I’m out with the boys talking to girls, I feel lonely. And I miss her a ton, it’s like my brain is pounding into me every memory of us. I am afraid that this banging girls won’t ever be fulfilling(it won’t). So I want to text her extremely bad. However, if we got back together I would have to be all about her, and my issue is I don’t want to pull her back in now, only to 2-3 months down the line get the same urge to cheat or flirt around. She is very sweet and kind and it’s not fair to her

What do you older miscers think? I basically had a high quality wife girlfriend who I let go to bang other chicks. I want her back, but not sure if once I’m comfortable and not hurting again I would just want to bang other chicks. Any advice is appreciated brahs

shoot her a text right now and tell her you'd like to meet up for a drink or coffee and just talk.

im in the same position as you op except im 28

im going to try and get my ex back when the lockdowns are over here. we got along perfectly and had insane chemistry. ive already clapped 100 pairs of slampig cheeks so im done with that life foreal.

im also not even into young sloots, i want a 28 year old slampig who was born the same year as me.

if shes a special girl you will regret not trying to make things with her trust me.

i think about my ex everyday knowing how badly i fked up its a horrible feeling.

Do you think the problem is that you'll never find one like her again? Because you will.

You did the right thing. You broke it off so you could bang sloots. Go and do that, get it out of your system. Hell, take a few years at least doing it.

More guys should before they commit to a relationship, there'd be a lot less cheating.

Originally Posted by SannaBarBrah

Do you think the problem is that you'll never find one like her again? Because you will.

lol. quality girls like OP described are RARE.

It's true OP, tons of hot trash out there, but if you got a good loyal hearted girl? Hold on to her, srs.

i mean this is usually what happens



you guys make up



you get bored 6 months in



you **** up, she leaves you and marries the next srs guy that comes along




then you become the sandman





edit

u said it yourself, u are making up for lost time.


then 15 years from now


you look in the mirror and wonder



am i still making up for lost time?

Originally Posted by Lowkick

Don't ruin this girl's life if you really care for her.
You are obviously still a boy following his dink around.
You choose desire over responsibility.

You are already thinking about betraying her, again, after you get back together.
You don't trust yourself so why would she?

This whole thread is going to be an echo chamber between "go hunt sloots" & "go for it if you really love her".
Both missing the point.

There are 2 explanations for your problem:
1. You are not ready for a relationship yet; you do not want to commit. You are not responsible enough to take care of her in good & bad times.
2. She is not good enough for you and you don't value what she brings to your life.

Why would you even want a relationship (with her) in the first place?
Nothing good will come of it instead of some instant gratification which will be offset again by a sloot spree in which you sin & repent, once again.

Very good response thanks bro. Lots to think about

You dun goofed, stupid. Cherish having a good relationship, because fuking randoms will never be fulfilling.

Out of allll the guys you know who got back with their ex, how many are still together and would say it's a great idea?

she isn't attractive enough (srs).

Being a good person or a good gf isn't enough. Life and relationships aren't that simple. It's natural to want to bang other women in a RS, but it's telling if you end a relationship to do it. History will repeat itself.

You're longing a pattern that you have had for 2+ years.

You should only try to get her back if you are prepared to put her first and treat her right.

If you're doubting your ability to be faithful, even now, then you're just wasting her time and being selfish and going to hurt her more.

Only contact her if you're prepared to give it 100%. Otherwise leave her alone and let her get on with her life.

Originally Posted by ErnieMccracken

Out of allll the guys you know who got back with their ex, how many are still together and would say it's a great idea?

Interestingly enough, I just found out my dad and mom went through almost the exact same thing at my age. He dumped her because he wanted to go out bang sloots, 5-6 months later and he was missing her bad but she was dating someone new. Eventually he got her back and he took it srs as fuk, became a doctor has a huge house 3 kids lots of cars etc. Very happy marriage

Originally Posted by Peacening

2.5 weeks? You fukking phaggot you're hurting so bad that you count half a week instead of just saying 2 weeks? Lmao you sorry boyo you.


Anyway yes every time I've dumped a sloot it hurt bad for several months even though every time it was 100% the right call. IMO you may have been a bit premature in banging those 4 sloots so soon. Contrary to what people portraying masculine males on the internet will tell you, banging randoms is not the solution to your sorrows when you're freshly single. If anything it'll just make the pain worse because they won't have what you had with her, leading to regret and second-guessing yourself. You need to heal first but that's just my opinion and how I feel after breakups.

Slow down on the hookups and just work on being happy without sex or relationship chit. You made the right call-- imagine if you stuck with this chick and regretted not banging more sloots before marriage. You might end up cheating or resenting her and then your life would fall apart. Better to whore it up for a few years before settling down.

Yeah it did not help at all. Their bodies weren’t as good, was awkward new sex, and overall chemistry just wasn’t there, made me feel way more lonely.