Thread: Fuark. GF of 4 years just left me (srs)(no Sandman)(srs)

Fuark brahs.

Early Feb girl im living with said to me "When are we getting married and having kids". I said i'd think about it and let her know expecting me to get more time.

The next week she said she was leaving. I said i still hadnt fully processed what she asked (I wish i didnt try).

Then it was a drawn out discuss, try again, discuss, try again. I got to the point after speaking to family of saying we can work towards a bit over a year before kids because I need to own a house first.

Get to April and she came home and packed a bag saying it was time to go. She left the next day.

She has spent a week away.

It still hasn't really processed for me.

She will pack up all her shiet this week and be gone forever.

It feels super weird. srs.

im still sad after a 7 month relationshp for years
lol @ 4 years

that wouild take me like 20 years to get over

she was never really yours, it was just your turn

There are plenty more sloots in the sloot sea.

Originally Posted by 2yearsCounting

im still sad after a 7 month relationshp for years
lol @ 4 years

that wouild take me like 20 years to get over

It wont take me as long as you Sandman.

But it feels weird not to be able to talk to someone you have nursed through sickness or seen poop on your dik from. Literally went from 30 texts a day to zero in a week (srs).

I know it's just the routine and getting back out there but the thought of it sucks initially. It's like losing a dog and a job all in one go the routine is so fuked up after srs.


Here are some threads to help with your situation Sandman - they have helped me in initial stages.

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Originally Posted by beansieweansie

she was never really yours, it was just your turn

the threads above i linked (below 50 posts) are really good advice srs. Go no contact, get over sloot and she will chase you up.

She has already added some ex bfs back on social apps so its def over. she's gonna get over me by getting under someone else which the thoughts hurt initially but in the end im gonna try and fuk plenty of skirt as well. Maybe try for another 20 notches by end of year and hopefully this initial period of suck doesnt really extend beyond a month.

Originally Posted by ErnieMccracken

There are plenty more sloots in the sloot sea.

this i know my friend. I feel like a royal idiot right now srs.

I knew it was coming, i was gonna break up with her before COVID because her sex drive isnt up to par but then in covid the convenience made me keep her around which i guess was a better decision than sitting single the whole time.

Just initial stages hurt is all.

I got with this newest ex within a month of breaking up with another 2 year relationship. I might try to heal a bit this time round before jumping straight back into a LTR.

Fuuuark

Feels brah

We gonna make it

Originally Posted by AgBrah

Women like men.



You are a boy.



Deal with that thought while she’s getting taken from the back by some stud that has a house and a boat. Creaming those cheeks. Soon she’ll have a new Chevrolet Tahoe and a kid, loving life.



Sucks to suck

srs dude yeah for sure.

Ive started a business that is finally getting up to speed but the last year has been tight for sure which definitely added to the relationship strain.

Everyone in my network that i've told has said "oh well lol, you have plenty of better options" or "lol, i was wondering when this was gonna happen, I didnt see you staying with her once you became successful"

Feels srs. If i sped up my progress by that 12-18months life would be different right now.

That said I will be your version of a man before/by 30years old taking other dudes ex-gfs so i guess that will have to be my drive for the time being.

I dunno if she fuking other dudes yet. Probably is. Im gonna start fuking new chicks end of this week/next.

Just imagine her gasping as a fresh new cock slowly penetrates her dripping wet poosey while you are sitting at home crying while she cries in ecstasy

Originally Posted by OatSlap

Yeah well a real women who wants to kids doesn't stay with a little boy who jerks off and plays video games.

True boyo.

I said to her that i can give her that in 18months when my business is fully supporting my wage and I have purchased a house srs.

It is what it is. To anyone else going through same thing read the advice in the threads I linked above. Legit advice.

Go no contact. She left you because she thinks she can do better either now or in the future. She 90% chance has another guy on the side she has been talking to (if not fuking) and is planning to monkey branch to. You have to be strong and work on yourself through your own self love and self respect and don't take too big of a hit to your ego. There are another 2-3 Billion women out there who would probably want to suk ur d srs. Don't let yourself stay sad for too long because then it will become a negative failure cycle/spiral.

Get out, approach women. Doing something poorly is better than nothing at all. Eventually what was hard will become easy and you will be stronger as a person.

Any relationship that ends is never as good as the next one that doesn't end.

Women are born to be deceitful and crazy. That is how they keep a mate interested and need emotional volatility in their life. Not stability despite what they say.

Also, steer clear of women who have had serious bfs in the past/a lot of partners. They will not be able to pair bond correctly and as a result will be able to turn off emotions at the drop of a hat and leave you wanting.

srs

Originally Posted by DesperateEnuf

Just imagine her gasping as a fresh new cock slowly penetrates her dripping wet poosey while you are sitting at home crying while she cries in ecstasy

Dont really care srs.

Not Sandman, have had other serious relationships who still try to maintain contact on the chance they can hit things off again.

Originally Posted by AgBrah

I didn’t read,


I just assume you’ll be jerking it to her new Bull blowing out her beef curtains.


Man, that smell. I can smell it. Raw meat and bleach.

Thanks for advice srs. Just what i needed.

Im not crying, i know women are brutal.

Going no contact on her and fuxking new poosy and making money.

Chase a check, never chase a bitch.

I amazed how OP can respond to all these will long winded responses so quickly. Makes me wonder if copy pasta?

Originally Posted by DesperateEnuf

I amazed how OP can respond to all these will long winded responses so quickly. Makes me wonder if copy pasta?

Originally Posted by AgBrah

He has time since his exgf is short winded in the sheets with a real man

This

Originally Posted by SheLeftMeSoSad

Chase a check,

this doesnt reallly help either [srs]

Originally Posted by cherrygarcia1

this doesnt reallly help either [srs]

yeah it does dude.

its cope if you don't believe that money helps you get with women. (if only through the qualities it takes to earn a lot of money)

Originally Posted by SheLeftMeSoSad

yeah it does dude.

its cope if you don't believe that money helps you get with women. (if only through the qualities it takes to earn a lot of money)

i have lots of money and stilll miss my ex

it doesnt.

cool story, any pics?