Thread: How do people have so many friends?

That feel when the weather is getting nice and I go to the city park and everyone there is in a group of 6-20 people with HBBs everywhere as far as the eye can see...

How do these people know each other?

Some people actively seek quantity over quality. I have a dozen or so phone numbers in my contact list from people who just throw their contact info around, always wanting a nice backlog of people to hang out with. It happens when people are constantly networking. It's like a real-life version of when people try to add more names to their social media friendlist; just spamming out friend invites. Then later on you rarely talk to them. Hell I have a dozen phone numbers in my contact list specifically from people I don't hang out with that much. Co-workers, former co-workers, friends of aforementioned co-workers, friends of friends, etc.

No clue bro lol how tf do you communicate with that many people on a weekly basis srs

I live in Denver and am referring to Washington Park for any CO miscers by the way

Originally Posted by tk217

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunbar%27s_number

Isn't that like 150? I do not maintain 150 relationships, that's for sure.

I only have two friends but they are 10/10 friendships. They are really good people and really reliable and they really love me and have been there for me through hard times. I’ve known them for over two decades.

- People with large families also tend to have large social circles
- People who live in the same town since birth and have kept the same large circle for many years
- LOWINHIBITIONMAXXERS who don't care at all about vetting new people
- Chads and Stacies who are welcome into any social group and form a giant amoeba of hotties
- Wealthy ELITES have a ton of people always trying to ride their coattails and enjoy their wealth (boats, events, sick ass parties, etc.)

For miscers, none of that applies lol. Better get a cat or a goldfish or something to avoid the temptation to ROPEMAXX.

My question isn't regarding how anyone has some good friends...I'm lucky in that regard.

My question is how people have such large friends groups that they can get together at the park like this?

I have a ton of friends that are still active and social from college. I could easily host dozens of people for a party any given moment because my friends would bring their friends and we'd have a whole shebang. My girl actually complains to me sometimes that I keep up with TOO MANY people because she feels like it takes time away from her.

Originally Posted by Dirtylocks

My question isn't regarding how anyone has some good friends...I'm lucky in that regard.

My question is how people have such large friends groups that they can get together at the park like this?

Try being an NPC normie like most people. It's not that difficult if you live, laugh, love your way through life.

Originally Posted by FitizenKane

I have a ton of friends that are still active and social from college. I could easily host dozens of people for a party any given moment because my friends would bring their friends and we'd have a whole shebang. My girl actually complains to me sometimes that I keep up with TOO MANY people because she feels like it takes time away from her.

So you and your college friends all still live near each other?

Originally Posted by Globally

1. Be born with good genetics
2. Have these genetics cultivated by the right environment to produce a great personality and physical attractiveness
3. Have friends
4. Those friends also have friends

Though many people at the park were good looking, most were fairly average.