Thread: Has anyone successfully converted a sexually free girl into a decent relationship?

Originally Posted by A-GAME

Only low values males select low value cum dumpsters. Choose wisely.

I wish i had a father like you.

Originally Posted by NEXTEPICBULG91

I've seen it. It's almost like any kind of behavior in life, it really depends on what age they stopped being "free for all"

At this point in society every girl is going to have relative sloot phase, but I'm not really crazy bothered by it until your past college age (anything past 23-24). After that, the sloot phase should be out of your system if you ever had one. If not.....good luck for anyone that deals with those girls.

Yeah, this girl is 30 and not completely over her sloot phase(although it could have just been her letting loose a bit after being stuck at home for COVID for 9 months?). Tbh, I'm 35 and still kind of a sloot myself, so we are actually very similar people. But I'd actually be in favor of starting to settle down a bit and I'm not totally sure she's capable of this yet.

Originally Posted by Depresedbros70

Yae good point but even then it's risky if a girl has a huge sloot past. like 100+ count during her "sloot phase" then at 25 tries to find a beta..

I don't know if this girl has a super high count of guys, as she's bisexual. She said she has been with like 15 girls, but most of the guys she's been with have been boyfriends. And she also said that she's never cheated on a boyfriend. But this could all be bullchit that she was telling me. She also gives below average blowjobs, which I guess could mean she isn't as big of a slut as I think?

I've fuked something like 100+ girls at this point so I'm not some pristine guy, but at the same time I could definitely settle down with one girl and not feel the need to cheat.

Originally Posted by OliverHeldens

Because she's a really fun person to be around, super high energy, meets all kinds of random people and suddenly we are at some crazy party with all these random people. And I have been rawdogging her and the sex is the best I've personally ever had.

I live in a really boring place, and she is kind of my opening to a lot more fun than I've had since before COVID.

sounds like she has a personality of a slut and you date like femoid . This is guaranteed going to fail.

Originally Posted by NEXTEPICBULG91

A girl still in his sloot phase at 30 is damaged goods no matter how you look at it. A girl that is 30 but single are red flags in of itself, but there can be circumstances behind it that are perfectly logical. A sloot though? Nah man just enjoy the moment but dont even take it seriously.

As for you? Don't let you wanting to settle down blind you from chicks you should not settle down with. Been there done that. I'm 31 and I'm not exactly in a sloot phase, but if a chick comes along and she's not long term material but I enjoy her company I would not mind banging her. If she is anything more than I act accordingly. You should prob do the same, but to each their own of course.

Yeah, and honestly the last trip I was on with this girl she almost told me this same thing. She was getting upset about something and I tried to calm her down like a decent individual, and all of a sudden she stopped and said, "Oh wow, you really do like me after all". So maybe she even has trouble thinking a guy would seriously want to date her at this point.

But other than a couple sexual red flags, she really could make a decent wife. She has mostly great qualities but the couple thins that are bad make you say, "What the fuk?!?"

To be honest, I would be totally in favor of dating her for like 2 years as well. But I think she'd eventually find someone else in that time that she likes more(and would be more present and willing to provide more to her) and it isn't practical.

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- op trying to justify dating a 30 year old cum dumpster.

Originally Posted by NEXTEPICBULG91

Outweigh the pros and cons then. Ride it out and see what happens

Tbh from my viewpoint, she doesn't sound like as much of a sloot as you led on at first. Just seems sexually experienced. I have met some turbo sloots and my goodness those girls you really do not want anything to do with.

Yeah, I don't think "turboslut" is the correct word, at least from what I've seen out of her so far. But she is definitely sexually experienced, and she has told me all these crazy party stories where she just happened to be present when this crazy sexual stuff was happening around her but she wasn't participating, which seems likely she's leaving certain details out to look better to me. And there were a couple times when guys she had chatted with said things to me like, "Hey man would you ever consider letting another guy fuk your girl?" and she was actually upset when I told her about it.

Basically I think she sometimes comes off as a turboslut while partying, but she's a lot more selective about who she actually has sex with. She probably just likes the attention more than anything.