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    Srs thread: Do any of you have toxic parents?

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    My parents had a terrible relationship as I grew up - constant fighting/arguing, putting me in the middle and making me choose sides, and just overall emotionally manipulative. Mom threatens suicide before but refuses help.

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    My gf of 5 years is moving to Texas for a awesome new job and I plan on going there with her. Since I told my parents, my mom more specifically, my mom constantly talks **** about my gf and how much she hates her and that she’s ruining our family etc and now isn’t even talking to me and from what I heard from my dad it’s just hell at home right now.

    Sorry if this is a dear diary but I need some advice if anyone has it. I’m thinking I need to distance myself and move for my own sake.
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    Originally Posted by roc430 View Post
    Backstory:
    My parents had a terrible relationship as I grew up - constant fighting/arguing, putting me in the middle and making me choose sides, and just overall emotionally manipulative. Mom threatens suicide before but refuses help.

    Currently:
    My gf of 5 years is moving to Texas for a awesome new job and I plan on going there with her. Since I told my parents, my mom more specifically, my mom constantly talks **** about my gf and how much she hates her and that she’s ruining our family etc and now isn’t even talking to me and from what I heard from my dad it’s just hell at home right now.

    Sorry if this is a dear diary but I need some advice if anyone has it. I’m thinking I need to distance myself and move for my own sake.
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    Can´t relate, my mom is my biggest motivation to succeed in life. I want it more for her than for myself. She´s also the person who convinced me I can do everything I want.

    Please do what makes you happy, move to Texas with your girl and live a happy life. They will sort things themselves at home. Fingers crossed
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