New Delhi: The horrors of that dreadful night still haunts ‘India’s daughters’! Yes, 8 years back, on the cold winter night of December 16, India witnessed the most abhorrent crime that jolted us out of our collective complacency. A 23-year-old paramedical student was gang-raped in a moving bus in Delhi and thrown out of the vehicle after being severely assaulted. She died on December 29, 2012, at the Mount Elizabeth Hospital in Singapore.
As we remember ‘Nirbhaya’ and thousands like her, we are forced to ask ‘has anything changed’? Sadly, the answer is no. This year was nothing different as India witnessed a spate of similar horrendous rapes including the Hathras gangrape. In all honesty, the only reason we outraged so much was because of the savagery involved in the crime, else we wouldn’t even have bothered because instances of rape have become the new ‘normal’ and are reduced to just another statistic.
Nevertheless, all these rape cases sparked nationwide protests, candle light marches and Twitter trends, but the subsequent politicisation and belittling of these awful crimes made it clear that we don’t care about our women.
Just in the span of a year, India’s capital city, has witnessed as many as 1,429 cases of rape till October. These are just the official figures, we wonder how many cases of rape end up not getting reported due to the stigma and shame this society places on a woman’s ‘izzat’. Not to forget how such cases gets dragged on for years in the court, still conviction rates remain so low in the end. Sadly, many women are still fighting for justice.
It’s 2020, but women are just as vulnerable as before and their daily lives are still ruled by fear. We are still scared whenever we have to step outside at night, shivers go down our spine whenever there is a shadow lurking on the streets and even taking a walk alone at night seems to be a far-fetched dream. At a time when young boys and men should be taught gender sensitivity, women are instead bombarded with plethora of advices on ‘how to not get raped’.
Notice all those awful WhatsApp chats? The sexist jokes and jibes haven’t stopped and the ‘rape culture’ in India is well thriving, thanks to patriarchy, the epidemic which has been eating away at our society for thousands of years. Every time, a woman asserts her independence and voices her opinions on social media, she is abused and threatened with rape endlessly. How can women prosper in such environment?
A permanent change can only come when people’s mindset and misogynist attitudes are questioned. Unless boys and men are taught to respect women from an early age and the criminal justice system is completely overhauled, there isn’t a bright future for ‘India’s daughters’. Most importantly, it is men who need to be our allies in this fight for ‘equality, justice and safety’.
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