Me, me, me! Bridezilla vents fury that her bridesmaid cousin can't drink at her wedding because she's PREGNANT - and admits she asked her to wait to conceive until after the nuptials
- A bride asked her cousin, a bridesmaid, to delay getting pregnant with her third child until after her wedding
- The bridesmaid did get pregnant and is due in December, months after the October wedding
- Bride 'flipped her lid' because bridesmaid won't 'be there' for her because she won't be drinking
- Bride accused bridesmaid of stealing her thunder
- Bride's mother is calling the bridesmaid 'selfish'
An American bridezilla threw a tantrum because one of her bridesmaids will be pregnant at her wedding, saying it's 'unfair' that the bridesmaid won't 'be there' for her in the way she wants because she won't be drinking alcohol on the big day.
The bride, who was shamed on Reddit, complained that her bridesmaid got pregnant with her third child even after the bride had asked her to wait until after the wedding to expand her family.
And it seems that no one will be able convince the bride that she's being unreasonable, since even her own mother is backing her up and calling the bridesmaid 'selfish.'
Me, me, me! An American bridezilla threw a tantrum because one of her bridesmaids will be pregnant at her wedding
The saga played out in a group text exchange that the pregnant bridesmaid — who is the bride's cousin — shared on Reddit this weekend.
The mother of the bride had said to the pregnant bridesmaid, her niece, 'You don’t think you should have waited [to get pregnant] until you didn’t have a wedding to be in?'
Later, in a group text, she complained that the bridesmaid 'didn't even have the respect to talk to [the bride] at all first' before getting pregnant.
'Just selfish!' she wrote.
The bride answered with a long response, ranting about the pregnant bridesmaid — and saying that she wasn't getting all of the attention for her wedding that she thought she deserved.
'I was aware that she was planning on having another child, I didn't ask her not to,' wrote the bride.
'What I DID ask her to do was at least wait a couple of months so that she would still be able to be a part of my wedding and and everything leading up to me because it was important to me to have all of you there.'
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Selfish: The bride says she is angry that her bridesmaid won't be drinking and admits she thinks she will steal her thunder (stock image)
The bride went on to complain that 'already upset' about another bridesmaid, who would be unable to participate in some of the wedding events.
'It's completely unfair to me to have almost my entire family not be able to be there for me!' she wrote.
To be clear, the pregnant bridesmaid will physically be at the wedding. The nuptials are in October, and she is due at the end of December.
What has upset the bride is that her bridesmaid won't be drinking, and that the pregnancy will shift some of the spotlight away from her.
'I was being considerate when I told her we were planning on getting pregnant again soon,' the bridesmaid wrote on Reddit. 'I had reassured her I wouldn’t miss anything, and the ONLY thing I wouldn’t be able to do was drink which, I’m not a drinker anyway.
'She still flipped her lid about me "not being there for her,"' she went on, saying it 'got real ugly.
'She told me I was trying to compensate for “never having the wedding I wanted” because my husband and I decided to get married just us in Florida and they HATED it,' she added.
'To her it’s “I’m stealing her thunder” and “she can’t even have this “one time” be about her” and “I shouldn’t be punished because I decided to wait longer than you all to get married.”' she went on.
Commenters on Reddit are horrified, calling the bride a 'rude garbage person,' selfish, and a narcissist.
