Girl to Girl: Things every girl should talk to her mother about

A mother-daughter relationship is probably the purest and strongest bond in the world. It starts from motherhood, the moment you are born and later develops into an incomparable bond of friendship. No matter how much we as daughters fight with our moms, it is the mother who is there for us at the end of the day. From showering her endless love on us to taking care of us at every step of our lives, mothers truly have some superpowers. Even though a mother-daughter duo discusses almost about everything, there are still a few things which gets missed out in the process.
Here are a few things that every daughter must discuss with her mother at some point of time.

Your life choices

Be it education, career, love or anything else, your choices might differ from that of your mom. It is alright to discuss it with your mom regarding what you want to do. Nobody will call you a rebel or a spoiled kid for choosing what you want. It is essential to not only seek your mother’s advice in important life decisions, but it is equally important to tell her what you have decided for yourself. And don’t worry about being misunderstood. After all, it is your mother with whom you are discussing it with.

Your failures

Each one of us has faced rejection at least once in our lifetime, be it in love life, workplace, a job interview or anything else. No matter how much it hurts us, we always have our mothers to help us when we fall.
Hiding your feelings from your mom when you feel lost and blue is the worst decision ever. Every mother has the superpower to make their kids instantly feel happy. Just let your mom know what exactly is hurting you and see your problem vanishing in thin air.

Your thoughts on marriage

Once you cross the 25-age mark, all sorts of marriage related questions start popping in. With all the aunties forcing you to marry, you see most of your friends already getting married. In this social and peer pressure situation, you might get tired at some point of time.
Whether you want to marry early or late or don’t want to marry at all, it is your choice. You must find solace in your mom and discuss whatever you have in your mind regarding the much-hyped topic that is marriage.

Your love life

We can discuss almost about everything with our moms but when the topic of love comes up, some of us shy away from talking about it. Though there is absolutely nothing to fall in love and be in a relationship, the fear of being rebuked by our moms makes us shove away the topic under the carpet.
For once consider your mom your friend and trust her with your secrets. She is the one who will understand you the most and will only advice you for better. And once you start discussing topics like love with her, you’ll feel how the tension between you two starts loosening up. A pep-talk with mom can help us deal with anything in life. No one can understand us better than our own mother, who knows us better than us.