'She said I would overshadow her': Maid-of-honour reveals her best friend has BANNED her from getting a boob job ahead of her wedding day
- A maid-of-honour has revealed how she's been banned from getting a boob job
- She says the bride has said she needs to wait to do this until after her wedding
- The bride's call her friend not look her best has sparked a heated debate online
A maid-of-honour has revealed she's been told she needs to put off her boob job until after her best friend marries, so she doesn't upstage the bride.
Taking to Reddit, the woman said she was shocked by the request to delay her breast enlargement until after September and at being told she was trying to outshine the bride.
'She said she wants to be the hottest one in her wedding party and I may overshadow her with my new boobs,' she wrote on the thread.
'She asked me whether I would consider doing it after her wedding. I was surprised because she knows it's perfect timing for me and there are many reasons behind it.'
A maid-of-honour says she's been told she needs to put off her boob job until after her best friend marries, so she doesn't upstage the bride (stock image)
The woman explained she wasn't out to upstage her friend, more the timing of her surgery coincided with the bride's planned nuptials.
'My boob enhancement surgery is scheduled by the end of this month. I've dreamed of it for a long time and I finally got a chance and money to do it,' she said.
The woman said she not only feels put out by her friend's demand but she's also been left questioning whether or not the bride is in fact quite insecure.
'Some things start making sense,' she wrote.
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By way of a compromise, the woman told her friend that she would wear something less revealing, 'and will not flash my boobs in front of everyone' (stock image)
'She didn't include our other best friend who is hellishly hot in her wedding party and we both were shocked about it, but didn't question it much.
'Instead, she picked her future sisters-in-law as bridesmaids, who are twins and quite chubby.
'They are very sweet ladies but the bride called them land whales behind their back once and I told her it's not very nice.
By way of a compromise, the woman told her friend she would wear something less revealing and 'will not flash my boobs in front of everyone'.
This commenter remarked a wedding to be the hottest woman as the bride was 'the wrong reason to be having a wedding'
Another said they thought the bridesmaid should feel quite insulted by the bride's request
One person said as long as the woman wasn't going out of her way to outshine the bride, they didn't see what the problem was
The bridesmaid's post has seen dozens of Redditors weigh in with many saying how angered they were that the bride could behaved that way towards her best friend.
'A wedding to be the hottest woman as the bride is the wrong reason to be having a wedding,' said one.
'If she was not shallow, she would choose her friends to be in it regardless of what they look like, hot or not.'
Another wrote: 'If I were in your shoes I'd feel pretty insulted to be honest. Have you thought about discussing it with the other bridesmaids?
'Also, she only wants people she considers "uglier than her" in her wedding party, doesn't that mean you'd all be in a lot of the photos? And then by her logic lots of her photos would be "ugly"?
'That would be my cue to bow out of the wedding party; if she's such a shallow cow, I wouldn't waste my energy or friendship,' a third wrote.
Some said the bride appeared to be deliberately surrounding herself with those she deemed less 'hot' than herself
One person suggested the woman take the bride's request as her cue to bow out of the wedding party
Commenters also noted the bride was demonstrating a level of insecurity which appeared 'incredibly rude'.
'I just don't think she’s being a very good friend, being insecure is one thing but making everyone around you act a certain way to make you feel better is super rude,' said one.
'She's deliberately trying to make sure she has surrounded herself with women who she deems less desirable,' said another.
'I know you've been friends for years but a true friend, a friend who cares about you wouldn't ask you to do this.'
A third said: 'She's deliberately trying to make sure she has surrounded herself with women who she deems less desirable.'
