Why do we love having sex in others\' bedroom?

We don’t know why it exactly is, but there is an illicit thrill about catching some action in a bedroom, which is not your own. Having sex in someone else’s bedroom is enjoyable and exciting for reasons beyond our comprehension.
If we had to take a guess, it might be the kids knocking on your door and asking for your attention or the constant ringing of doorbells that makes having sex at home, a not so convenient or even pleasant experience.

The research

According to several types of research, having sex somewhere else than your regular bed is actually much more exhilarating. The reason behind the same is actually the thrill of having an unfamiliar experience, which causes your brain to secrete more dopamine than usual.

What is dopamine?

Dopamine is a neurotransmitter, which is responsible for transmitting signals between the neurons of the brain. Also, known as the ‘feel-good’ hormone, it plays a major role in the pleasurable reward system.

Why do you feel excited while having sex in your hotel room?

Ultimately, it all boils down to the feeling of novelty that your brain experiences, thanks to the secretion of the dopamine hormone. To imagine the pleasure, visualize that you are wearing your favourite dress after a long period of time. You look just as amazing and it gives you a boost of dopamine.

So, when you catch some action in the privacy of a hotel room, it is not only the intercourse which gives you the high but the very fact that you are pampering yourself which acts a trigger too.

Secondly and more importantly, getting rid of stress and anxiety itself can help in women getting in touch with their sexual self. This is why it is important to keep even your bedroom clutter and distraction-free if you want some mind blowing sexual experience.

There is something about the comfortable white sheets, luxurious beds and the very fact that you can hang a DND sign on the door that gives a very erotic vibe to the hotel rooms. As an after-effect, you automatically start living in the moment and switch on your anxiety along with their cell phones.

It also gives a touch of novelty to the otherwise mundane routine, which increases the chances of trying a new position when you get all hot and heavy with your partner.

The bottom line

So, the next time you want to add a little spice to your sex life when things go a little stale, book a room for two and enjoy the new tingling sensation. When you have no time to plan a vacation, a staycation works just as fine.