Mother’s prayer for her daughter’s death to be as ‘beautiful’ as her brother’s

2018-08-24 15:44
Jayden and Brooklyn Boyce.(Photo:Instagram//stefanieboyce5/

Jayden and Brooklyn Boyce.(Photo:Instagram//stefanieboyce5/

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In a short space of time a mom and dad have suffered the worst kind of pain – having to bury two of their kids.

Stephanie (37) and Justin Boyce (38) from Illinois, US, suffered a traumatic ordeal in the past few months.

Eight months ago the couple lost their son Jayden (11) who was suffering from sanfilippo syndrome – a rare genetic condition that causes fatal brain damage, according to the Sanfilippo Children’s Foundation. The heartbroken parents witnessed him take his last breath, The Mirror reports.

Jayden’s sister Brooklyn also suffered from sanfilippo syndrome.

After witnessing Jayden suffer before he died, Stephanie worried that Brooklyn – whom she refers to as “B” – might die in a similar fashion, Mirror News reports.

“My greatest fear was B’s passing would be sudden and tragic,” she wrote on Instagram. “A seizure. A morning I’d find her not breathing. Some way that I couldn’t say goodbye. Some way not as holy or sacred as Jayden’s.

“What parent has to think these thoughts, ‘I wonder if my daughter’s death will be as beautiful as my son’s?’ ”

But Stephanie had the “profound honour” of being able to watch her daughter peacefully take her last breath on 6 August.

“B is probably dragging him around Heaven giving him the tour even though J [Jayden] knows his way around,” she wrote in an emotional tribute to the pair.

“And I bet J’s chuckling and going along with it as she does.” 


6 months closer happens to fall on Mother’s Day for me. It’s his physical presence I miss so much. There’s a hollowness, a vacancy, a longing death leaves behind, even for the believer. The physicality is gone. That is the sting of death: physical absence. So much of our connection to one another is physical, isn’t it? But I keep training my eyes to see him differently. Believing he is more alive, running and jumping- cured and glorious than he ever was in his physical body. Believing the sting is just temporary. Believing love is still very present between us. I just can’t see it. I just can’t touch it. Yet. “So we don’t look at the troubles we can see now; rather, we fix our gaze on things that cannot be seen. For the things we see now will soon be gone, but the things we cannot see will last forever.” 2 Corinthians 4:18

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It has been my profound honor to watch Brooklyn take her first and her last breath. Mourning and sadness feel just as right as joy. Brooklyn, you have brought joy to our life and to every life that has ever been touched by yours. Even in your last few breaths you made me smile in my tears. May I always strive to live as beautifully as you have. See you soon, sweet girl. I will be looking for you, always.

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I love the weight of your body on me. The way your hand feels in mine. I love looking at you while you sleep, and holding you as you do. I love doing your hair, even though you complain every day. I love how you tap your hand to tell me more—and how you heal hearts with your smile. You have always been feisty and brave, and on your 9th birthday, I can help but thank God for you. My heart is torn in two today like every birthday does, celebrating and anticipating. Happy Birthday, Sweet B. You are mine forever and I am so proud of you. I am the luckiest mom in the world. #happy9thbirthday #jbthankful

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A day after Brooklyn’s death the couple celebrated their 14th wedding anniversary. They also have a six-year-old girl Ellie, who doesn’t suffer from sanfilippo syndrome, The Sun reports.

Sources: The Mirror, Instagram/stefanieboyce5, The Sun