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What can I do to convince my girlfriend that I love her more than any of the other girlfriends I have had? She doesn't believe me whenever I tell her this.
I suppose only your actions over time can convince her. If she doesn't think you love her enough, what are you doing to give her that idea?
I was with this girl for three years, but ended up cheating on her twice, with two people. She found out about this eventually and ended our relationship. Since that happened, I have not been with anyone and haven't even dated anyone. I miss her a lot. I know I ruined it and betrayed her trust in me, but I want her to know I have changed and will never do something like that again. I know she means a lot to me and I have tried speaking to her, but she refuses to even take my calls anymore. I would do anything to get her back, but don't know how to convince her that I am no longer that person. How can I get her to see that I have changed?
I'm not sure how you can get her to see this, considering you cheated on her twice. This implies that she forgave you once before you betrayed her confidence again, compelling her to end this relationship. A betrayal of trust is the hardest thing to get over, because it takes such a long time to build that trust in the first place. If you have reached out to her and told her how you feel, there's nothing much you can do but hope that she decides to forgive you one more time and give this another chance. It depends on whether she still values your presence in her life. If, on the other hand, she has decided to move on and be with someone she can trust, there may be nothing you can do except move on. You had your chance, after all.
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