The latest Horizon, subtitled Teenagers vs Cancer: a User’s Guide (BBC Two), made a determined effort not to wallow in sadness. I thought, initially, that narrator Jack Whitehall was trying too hard to be chipper: “Being a teenager can be pretty rubbish. So imagine what it’s like to throw cancer in the mix.” But then I remembered being chastised by a friend who had breast cancer for doing my “sympathetic face”, which I think involved me thinning my lips into the smile of a simpleton. No one wants that, and this documentary showed how patients refused to be mollycoddled or pitied.
Chloe Thurlow, from Bristol, had been diagnosed with lymphoma but embraced the indignities which the disease had thrust upon her. “I look like a little golden kiwi fruit,” she said as she tried on a new wig. This remark seems throwaway but I think it was important, if you think how self image is a constant cause of anxiety for most teenagers. As Roger Daltrey, frontman of The Who and a patron of the Royal Marsden Hospital in London said: “That’s a time when a spot on your nose is a big deal.”