Dear Graham
I had been a professional musician for 20 years, never big time and only rarely full-time, but touring and recording and getting a lot out of it. Three years ago, a "fan" got my address off the electoral register and attacked me outside my home. I know this was exceptional: the fan had mental health issues and is now receiving treatment. But it's all but killed any desire to make music, especially live. I have had counselling, and plenty of support from friends in the business and beyond, but my confidence is shot. I am forcing myself to practise, but I get the shakes when I play in front of anyone, even in a rehearsal with trusted bandmates. Do you have any advice on how to get back out there?
Anon, via email
Dear Anon
I'm very sorry to hear about your traumatic experience. Some sort of negative reaction is to be expected but, after three years, I feel you should be further down...