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THE RENTERS Alberto Pomello and Jacqueline Troccoli with their dog, Sambuca, in their one-bedroom in Jersey City, N.J. Credit Katherine Marks for The New York Times

The lack of a car had begun to grate on the nerves of Jacqueline Troccoli and Alberto Pomello.

The couple lived in a high-rise in the Midtown West neighborhood of Manhattan. And most days, she walked to her downtown office, while he took the subway to work downtown. But anytime they left the city — which they frequently did — traveling was a challenge, as they usually took the train and were beholden to a schedule.

Whenever they visited Ms. Troccoli’s parents near Princeton, N.J., she said, “We would inevitably have to wait at Penn Station, because there was always something going on with New Jersey Transit.” And once they got there, they had to be picked up at the station and driven back to catch the return train.

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Their apartment in the 45-story Vantage has views of Manhattan. Credit Katherine Marks for The New York Times

Keeping a car in the city, however, did not seem feasible. Finding parking on the street wasn’t easy, as many spots in their neighborhood were blocked by construction equipment, Mr. Pomello said, and there was always the risk of “a scratch or a ticket.” And they couldn’t justify paying hundreds of dollars a month for reserved parking.

Ms. Troccoli, 34, is the associate director of sales for Hornblower New York, a charter-boat company. She and Mr. Pomello, 27, met at an event on a Hornblower yacht, when he was working for an Italian restaurant and catering company. Mr. Pomello, who is from Verona, Italy, was trying to set up risotto equipment that was not compatible with the voltage in the United States. By the time Ms. Troccoli summoned an electrician, he had solved the problem himself.

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They had their fill of Manhattan and wanted more space. Credit Katherine Marks for The New York Times

“One of our chefs made a comment in Italian, and she answered in Italian,” said Mr. Pomello, who now works for Lualdi, an Italian design company in Lower Manhattan that makes interior doors.

They soon began dating and then moved in together, renting a one-bedroom west of Times Square, for $3,800 a month.

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The bedroom in their new apartment. Credit Katherine Marks for The New York Times

But as Ms. Troccoli put it, “I had my fill of New York.” She longed not only for a car, but also for more space and fewer people.

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“It was exhausting always having to plan ahead,” she said, no matter where she went. Even transporting groceries was a chore.

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JERSEY CITY They disliked the barn-style doors inside the apartments. Credit Katherine Marks for The New York Times

Their situation became more challenging last spring when the couple, who are planning a fall wedding, adopted a mini goldendoodle named Sambuca. When Sambuca was too young to walk very far and too heavy to carry, “I was the weirdo on the train with the dog in a stroller,” Ms. Troccoli said. “We were officially ready to live in New Jersey.”

Last summer, they started looking at high-rise rental buildings in Jersey City. Rents there were around $3,000 a month for a one-bedroom — surprisingly low compared with the Manhattan prices they were used to. And the spaces were large.

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JERSEY CITY Availability was limited and move-in dates were inconvenient. Credit Katherine Marks for The New York Times

At Modera Lofts, there were many different layouts, but “we were finding a flaw with each one,” Ms. Troccoli said.

They also disliked the barn-style doors that didn’t close quite as tightly as conventional ones. Mr. Pomello feared that cooking smells would invade the bedroom, and that noise would travel, too.

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JERSEY CITY They chose a one-bedroom in a new building, and arrived in the fall. Credit Katherine Marks for The New York Times

“Sometimes I am getting ready early in the morning, and in that kind of apartment it is pretty impossible to avoid disturbing Jackie when she is still sleeping,” he said.

In some buildings, like Warren at York, availability was limited and move-in dates were inconvenient.

Their favorite building was the 45-story Vantage, where they had a choice of views. They loved that it was brand new — the building opened in August — with spacious one-bedrooms.

“It is a little bit farther from the PATH than some of the other buildings, but it doesn’t hurt anyone to walk” to the train, Ms. Troccoli said.

They chose an 800-square-foot one-bedroom with a postcard view of Manhattan, and arrived in the fall. Their rent is $3,160 a month, with one month free on an 18-month lease.

They are thrilled to finally have a car, an SUV they are leasing primarily because they couldn’t decide what to buy. It costs around $400 a month, and parking in the building’s garage is an additional $200 a month.

Their commutes are no worse than before, and grocery shopping is much easier. The couple used to walk to Trader Joe’s in Chelsea, which was so crowded that “the line wraps around,” Ms. Troccoli said. They would take a cab home, laden with heavy bags, and cart them upstairs in an elevator.

But now, when they load up on groceries at Trader Joe’s in Hoboken, or at ShopRite in Jersey City, they take them home in their own car and wheel them up to their apartment in a bellman’s cart.

When Mr. Pomello’s parents visit from Italy, they fly into Newark Liberty International Airport, where they can easily be picked up and dropped off. And the couple are able to visit Ms. Troccoli’s relatives not just on weekends, but midweek as well.

“We have the flexibility of getting in the car whenever we want,” Ms. Troccoli said. “We are not always relying on timetables.”

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