That was literally it... She gives decent answers and seems ok have a decent amount in common etc just incapable of doing anything other than answering my questions really. I have replied with another non question answer if she doesn't come up with something soon I give up
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Posted 1 day ago #
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First one who did it to me (she looked good, so I kept it going for a while), I ended up sending a rant, 'if this is how you think a conversation should be..' etc! Nothing lost really. If that's how they conduct an online chat, they could only be worse in reality. Chatting online is EASY!
Maybe ask to have a chat on the phone? That can be most revealing IME.
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Purely out of curiosity, I switched the app on last night after not touching it for months. 3 matches in 3 mintues
....from 3 blokes who thought you were called DebZ?
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Isn't that one a month rather than minute though? Even if your not online they can still see you right?
If she keeps talking a bit longer I'll ask to meet up (not like that... Yet)
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Even if your not online they can still see you right?
No, I had it un-public'ed. Don't shit on my parade!..from 3 blokes who thought you were called DebZ?
Happy with whatever I can get
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perchypanther said »
....from 3 blokes who thought you were called DebZ?
Any port...
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.....back in the game.....dope!!...back out, ran out of swipe rights again...
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illuminating thread as ever.
Posted 1 day ago # -
Found this on R4.... Quite apt....
Niche Work If You Can Get It - Series 1, Online Dating Photographer, Episode 2 - @bbcradio4 http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b09mzkbl
Posted 1 day ago # -
For a laugh I changed one of my pictures on the photofeeler to be viewed by men... Let's just say I'm glad I'm not gay. They were very mean about my jumper
Got a (drastic) haircut Today let's see if that makes any difference
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Scores are in... new haircut is a winner.
Had as much interest tonight as the last week put together
Posted 1 day ago # -
Craigslist for the win
If you can look past the mountain of dudes looking to be gang banged by complete strangers, there are a few jems to be found..
Free advice.. Rubber up if you go down this route ..
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tpbiker said » Craigslist for the win
Okayyyy....
<searches>
"Genuine guys wanted for bukkake (Southampton)"
https://hampshire.craigslist.co.uk/w4m/d/genuine-guys-wanted-for/6465614045.html
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Group ride in Southampton on the 27th anyone?
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That reads to me like the poster is a participant rather than the recipient (given they're paying for the girl). Poor lass, she'll have a face like a plasterer's radio.
Takes all sorts I suppose.
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Just had a look on my local craiglist adds
I thought I was pretty open to new experiences but nope nope nope nope
Group ride in Southampton on the 27th anyone?
I dont think there is generally any riding involved in that scenario...
Posted 1 day ago # -
Well....
The match that wanted discreet fun messaged me three times today.
No idea what they said as by the time I saw the alerts she had lost patience and "dumped" me so I can't even see the messages.
Sorry luv,but it's my way or the highway. I'm terrible at replying to messages/texts and if you can't accept me as I am then is time you move on!
Anyway... I'm guessing that being a Friday night she wanted an,erm, firmer offer for tonight.
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That`ll teach you for not being on tinder 24/7
I was talking to the one girl for a few hours this evening, seems promising seems like a nice genuine person but more than likely looking for something more serious, she actually initiated the conversation which is a first for me! Definately interested to see where this goes as she is very local as well
Also spoke to another who matched with me despite being waaaaay out of my league and she actually responded to my message and has talked to me a bit (btw the complimenting the smile thing works great
) but she lives 48 miles away... so maybe she is just being nice because she knows im far enough away not to be scared of Posted 22 hours ago # -
I was talking to the one girl for a few hours this evening, seems promising seems like a nice genuine person but more than likely looking for something more serious, she actually initiated the conversation which is a first for me! Definately interested to see where this goes as she is very local as well
Do I need to get a hat for the wedding yet?
Going aside, sounds like there could be some potential there. Fingers crossed bud.
Posted 22 hours ago # -
Well apparently the suggestion from that photofeeler"prefer a different haircut" was very true
Since I did I have 10x the interest...
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You are Wills and I claim my free ride in a Royal Helicopter.
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I wish
Although his haircut cost would be one every month for 18 months here
Posted 2 hours ago # -
Although quality does not = quality
One has kids (as usual mentions this straight away in their profile) but when I tell them I also have kids this is seen as some big negative against me
Another is boring as hell but trying to keep the conversation going just for practice...
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Sounds like tpbiker has had success on CL.
Care to share any tips on how to spot a genuine ad lolIs it rude to lead on a 41 yrs woman when I'm a lot younger.
I thought dating a mother was slightly taboo but a grand mother euuughhhh!Or should I ooooof it!
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What have you got to lose? (unless you still have your dignity?)
CL in my area is full of large women who want someone to pick them up to engage in activities in a car...My car is far too small (and lowered) for that
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Hmmmm, true, my dignity went with the first fat bird so why not, will update haha
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I gave up on the two from tonight...
One doesn't know how to hold a conversation and the other one started getting really funny with me saying "is this all we are going to talk about" so when I said "what do you want to talk about then" which didnt go down well
think she was just waiting for me to give her a load of compliments or something
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One doesn't know how to hold a conversation and the other one started getting really funny with me saying "is this all we are going to talk about" so when I said "what do you want to talk about then" which didnt go down well think she was just waiting for me to give her a load of compliments or something
How much conversation do you need? Skip to want to have a drink?Posted 55 minutes ago # -
Just sent a "good morning" reply to someone that messaged me that leave a day ago! Forgot re reply before. Doh!
Hope she doesn't have alerts that wake her up.
Was going to give a reason for why it took me so long to reply...
However,I haven't got one!
So, decided to play it safe and just said good morning back.
Don't know where else to do with this one.
Oh, wearing glasses on photo feel definitely makes you "smart".
Fact!
Posted 54 minutes ago # -
How much conversation do you need? Skip to want to have a drink?
Well with normal people you can just talk about stuff like what you have been up to music, films etc whatever but she didn't steer the conversation at all and didn't really say anything interesting... so I gave up.
Spoke to the girl from yesterday again she seems a lot more normal so think I will ask her to go for a drink or something if I talk to her tomorrow.
They have all been 3-7 years younger than me as well.
Posted 48 minutes ago # -
wiggles
They have all been 3-7 years younger than me as well.
That's a good thing though, right?
If I go the cougar route I am looking at having to brush up my resus technique at my age.
Posted 44 minutes ago # -
Yeah good for me, I`m 27 so 20-24 seems to be less full of crazies than the 26-32 sort of category I spoke to mostly before.
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seems to be less full of crazies than the 26-32 sort of category I spoke to mostly before.
Lol you should try the next bracket up.... might be a couple of I need a baby ones in therePosted 41 minutes ago # -
26-32 sort of category I spoke to mostly before.
I'm 49 so that age group is a dream age/a bit odd for me... as I'm not rich.
I don't want my son fancying my other half, you know what I'm saying?
Posted 40 minutes ago # -
Yeah, its not all about age obviously just mean there seems to be more of them in that age group. Might be better for older than as well as younger?
I
m a single dad with 2 kids so have very little free time, so younger girls who dont have their own kids would make things a lot easier for having time to meet up etc So the older ones mostly have their own kids so would make things much harder.Obviously further complicates things if any of these actually go somewhere but that is way off currently
Lol you should try the next bracket up.... might be a couple of I need a baby ones in there
They already exist in the early thirties
also there are some 20 years olds that im pretty sure have never had a boyfriend that seem a bit... desperate
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