How should I tell a colleague that I am madly in love with her? She doesn't even know me
How should I tell a colleague that I am madly in love with her? She doesn't even know me.
I don't understand this. She doesn't know you, but you are madly in love with her? Why don't you introduce yourself first, get to know her a little better, suggest going out for a cup of coffee, and then figure out whether or not you are madly in love. I think you have been watching too many awful movies.
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My friend's account on Facebook was hacked by someone he obviously knows very well, because I began to get messages from this person complimenting my looks and telling me he had a crush on me. We chatted for a while and I played along because I was flattered, but I didn't ask for his name or number. My friend told me he had no idea who could have got hold of his password, and it's definitely not him playing a prank on me because he has a girlfriend and is an old friend of mine. I want to know who this person is, but I can't find a way of getting into my friend's account because he has now changed the password, making it impossible for me to contact this stranger. I feel as if I might have missed out on a great relationship. What should I do to find this person?
If someone has gone through all the trouble of sending you a message anonymously after hacking into someone's account (a crime, incidentally), this person will have to find a simpler, legal way of reaching out to you at some point. You haven't missed out on a great relationship. You have simply missed out on meeting someone who is too afraid to confront you directly and has resorted to something unethical to do so. Go about your business and wait. If this person cares, he will reach out again. Until then, I wouldn't lose any sleep over this if I were you.