My girlfriend insists on seeing me just twice a month, because she says meeting more often will result in us getting bored of each other
My girlfriend insists on seeing me just twice a month, because she says meeting more often will result in us getting bored of each other. I miss her a lot but I can't even meet her whenever I want to because she is strict about this. Is she right?
Where is she getting these ridiculous ideas from? Relationships are born when two people decide they want to be together, not when people meet sparingly to avoid getting bored of each other. She isn't making much sense.
I have been having sex with a girl for over six months now, because she likes me a lot. I don't really have any romantic feelings for her, and continue to meet her only because I like having sex with her. She thinks I am slowly falling in love with her though, which is worrying me because I told her specifically at the start, that I had no intention of getting into a relationship. Every time we meet, she asks if I have reconsidered my decision, which bothers me because she now makes it sound as if I am using her, even though she is equally happy to just have sex with me and nothing else. I don't mind not speaking to her again, but I'm afraid of how she would react if I do this. How do I end it?
I'm not sure why you think a physical relationship with someone you have no interest in will not complicate your life in any way. If, as you claim, you are clear about how you feel about this woman, are you sure you have managed to get her to understand this too? If you have, why does she believe you are falling in love with her? More importantly, if you have no intention of ever getting into a relationship with her, why are the two of you still having sex when you are clearly not on the same page as far as acknowledging the nature of your relationship goes?